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Posted on Monday, September 06, 2004 - 12:45 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Now that the criminal rape case against Kobe has been dropped, what do you think he should do?

Should he go thru with defending himself in civil court? Or should he try to settle?

I guess the obvious view would be that he should NOT offer to pay her if he didn't in fact rape her. But at this point, he has invested so much time/effort/money in this fiasco, he might be wise to hit this chick up with a low 7-figure payoff and go on with his life.

I have heard legal experts say the burden of proof is less for a civil trial than a criminal one. Civil juries tend to side with claimants. And even though the alleged victim was hardly nun-material, I could see a (White) jury rationalizing that because of all she's 'endured' and that his innocence was NOT conclusively proven, she should get 'something'.

'Sides. He just signed a +$90M deal with the Lakers. So even if he does cut her a check, he'd HARDLY be hurting.

And really. Would paying her do anymore damage to his image than what has already been done?


So what do you say?

Think dude should just break this skeezer off a few duckets so he can immediately begin rebuilding the tattered remains of his life/reputation.
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Posted on Monday, September 06, 2004 - 01:04 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

ABM I think Kobe shouldnt give the little golddigger a penny let the girl prove her case.He worked for that money why should he just hand it over to her on a platter.I'd make her got to court and prove it.It might cost him more in the end but it aint like he dont have the money.I feel if he just settles it will be open season on Kobe.Women will be coming from everywhere claming to have gone threw the same thing.Less we forget what has happened to michael jackson after he settled.
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Posted on Monday, September 06, 2004 - 01:28 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Soulofaauthor,

Those are all good points (though I am not sure that Jackson's troubles are due to his settlement). And I am mostly playing Devil's Advocate here as I think that were I Kobe, a major part of me would be inclined to think/respond as you advise.

But I guess it all depends on the money's that on the table. Because at a certain point, one's time/energy and peace of mind must factor into to things.

He'll be starting the 2004 NBA season soon. He's already chased Shaq/Phil out of town, which has PISS a lot of foks off. So there are a LOT of NBA people/fans are wondering if he'll (perhaps expecting him to) fall flat on his face.

I am not sure his paying off dirty blond will open the floodgates to demands from every other flea-ridden hoochie he might have shared area codes with. Because it is unlikely they will, at this point, have anything remotely close to the kind evidence against him that this particular chick had. And any decent judge/jury will see them coming a mile away.

And there is that possibility that some details might be revealed during the civil trial that make him appear even more guilty that he does already.

So he might be wise to conclude, "Look. I've got a lot of work to do. I have lost a lot of time in this thing that I could have used focusing on my game and family. So hey. I'll pay up to $??? to get rid of her. You guys (attorneys) negotiate up to that point. Unless she wants anything above that, I really don't want to see, hear or even THINK about this chick again."
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Posted on Monday, September 06, 2004 - 01:59 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hmmmmmmmm I just got threw discussing this topic with my husband who is almost as big a basketball fan as me.He feels the same way as I do.I'll say it again don't give the white girl a penny.See Kobe was wrong from the beginning when he slept with the girl.What's the ole sayin lay down with dogs end up with fleas.I know I am going to get jumped for this one but I am going to say it anyway.That's whats wrong with brothas now any time a white women wants to give them alittle bit they lose they freaking mind.Now ya'll know what I really wanted to say.Do you feel like this would have went as far as it has if this was a sistah that brought the case against him?
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Posted on Monday, September 06, 2004 - 02:10 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

If KOBE has any saavy or sense whatsoever---he will settle this case---NOW.

The American Public has the SHORTEST ATTENTION SPAN I have ever seen. Their memory is less than quarter of an inch.

KOBE has already gotten the media to publicly prove that this woman is a liar (sorry folks--but NO WOMAN would sleep with another man right after she's just been RAPED). She's been proven to be a Psycho-Nut....out for "celebrity"....and not just a CABIN Wench--but a "dirty, filthy" CABIN Wench who doesn't even wash her ass.

Yes, KOBE is a dirty two-faced WHORE himself. But that's not "illegal"...and furthermore, it's none of our business.

This is the perfect time for KOBE to "quietly" pay her off---have his PR team explain to the media that he just can't take the STRESS of this Bullshit any longer, especially since he's got a GAME to play---and get back to cultivating his IMAGE.

By Christmas of this year...the nation will have totally forgotten the incident, as surely...other cases and scandals are on the way.

It would be stupid for KOBE to risk all the "anxiety" that months and months of Legal Bullshit will bring....not to mention the fact that White People IN Colorado are very likely to award that slut 15 to 20 million in a civil suit. He would be smarter to just pay her the same check he gave his other materialistic whore---$4 million.

And speaking of which....IF....and I'm saying "IF"...his wife's parents win out, and Vanessa really does leave him...she will be demanding at least $21 million for herself and will GET IT EASY (Princess Diana got $26 million from Prince Charles...and Diana Ross got $64 million from Arne Naess). SO...KOBE had better get rid of this trollop, the stress and drama and start thinking STRATEGICALLY about his "image" and his "future".

Naturally--I can't stand Kobe Bryant. But I think it's totally unfair and EVIL how this nasty woman lied on him and tried to turn her random "star-_uck" into a PAID TRICK.

She should pull that on the famous WHITE entertainers and athletes who frequent that RESORT....many of whom, I'M CERTAIN have taken a ride in her lying mouth.

I was once a HOSTESS/Party Girl and know EXACTLY what kind of maniacal, conniving little slut this girl is.

She gets NO SYMPATHY from me.





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Posted on Monday, September 06, 2004 - 02:16 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Michael Jackson's case cannot be compared to KOBE'S.

Michael is 10 times bigger...a FOOL...than KOBE could ever be.

Here is one of the richest men on earth, the most famous and HATED MEN on earth (and for the record--I loathe his White Pasty Azz)....but anyway.....he goes and KEEP SLEEPING WITH LITTLE BOYS on a regular basis.

That settlement of $20 mil would have definitely gotten him free and clear.....had he stayed away from these little WHITE children.

R. Kelly is PROOF that you can molest young black children (urinate in their faces on VIDEO) and be.....LOVED AND ADORED (especially by black people who love "geniuses" more than they love their own damned kids)....and get away with it.

KOBE is no where NEAR in the line of fire that these men are....because after KOBE pays this girl off, he can be a SMART WHORE and start planning and choreographing his "trysts" like the rest of the SMART GUYS.

Screaming "rape" is not easy if KOBE would just be PATIENT and have a person whose job it is to carefully PLAN his "run-ins".

I know MANY RICH BLACK MEN who do this.

KOBE just has to get smarter.





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Posted on Monday, September 06, 2004 - 02:43 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Soulofaauthor,

I am not sure you can put what Kobe did off on all brothahs. I do think, though, a lot of brothahs are acting out sort of a post-slavery sex/vengence fantansy that they've got going on for cheap-n-easy White (& particularly blond) women. But the fact that Kobe did what he did sans dah Jimmy Hat make him out to be a special breed of nut.

What, does this fool think he was born on Planet Krypton on something?

I too doubt this would have gotten this far had the alleged victim Black. Though, I also think a lot of sistahs would never have had him charged with rape to begin with. A lot of sistahs, sadly, would have felt compelled to not want to "bring a good Black man down". Because although we seldom hear/read about it, there probably are Black women being raped by pro/college atheletes (and rappers/actors/businessmen) every nite of the year.
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Posted on Monday, September 06, 2004 - 11:32 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

ABM I totally agree alot of brothas do use that post slavery as a excuse to mess around with ugly white no class trailer trash white woman.Don't get me wrong I just feel like if you gonna do it atleast do it with one with some class.Now ole kobe going to have to fork over alot of cash to some chick who had nothing.Serves his butt right for being some stupid.And no if it had of been a sistah it more than likely wouldnt have come out.And man if we think his lawyers have been hard on ole girl just think what they would have done if she was a sistah.The media would also have acted a lot different but like you said we don't want to bring a good man down.But he aint so good now if he rapes you huh?
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Posted on Tuesday, September 07, 2004 - 05:15 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I just love the responses! You all mentioned some very interesting observations about sex, race, class, and morality in the Kobe Bryant case. Bottom-line is that Kobe Bryant ran into a psycho-freak at a Colorado resort, admittedly had a sexual encounter with this Caucasian freak, and now Kobe Bryant must pay the price for his misbehavior and sexual irresponsibility. Sorry ladies and gentlemen, but Kobe Bryant gets no sympathy from me.

By the way, did the court record state if Kobe used a condom? Either way, Kobe's got to be straight up, funky shame, and nasty to have sex with the woman who is now declares his encounter with her was not a case of consentual sex, but a case of rape. The Colorado chic was stank when she walked into Kobe's hotel room and stank when she left and later had sex with another man. Hmmm, sexual addition?

Back to Kobe:
Like Public Enemy sang in the 80's, " I can't do nothing for ya man..."

Woe to Kobe Bryant. I can only hope that Kobe Bryant has reaped a valuable life lesson from this experience: Stupidity has its price.
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Posted on Tuesday, September 07, 2004 - 09:53 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

High_density,

I don't know if any public records have been released as, techinically, a trial never officially commenced. So we may never see the hard evidence. But everything I have heard/read about what happened asserts this guy was NOT wearing a prophylactic.

Can you believe it? This guy has close/cozy relations with the world's most famous HIV+ person, Earvin "Magic" Johnson...and he STILL did this!

That boy had bettah follow the advice of the immortal Snoop Dogg:
"You never know she could be earnin’ her man,
And learnin’ her man, and at the same time burnin’ her man
Now you know I ain’t wit that $#@+, lieutenant
Ain’t no p@$$% good enough to get burnt while I’m up in it".
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 12:36 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Lmao ABM so true but sometimes men think with their d**k rather then their brains and don't care about wrapping it up.Now all the brothas got a poster child for why they shouldnt creep.
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Souloaauthor,

Sorry to disappoint you. But men pretty much ALWAYS think with their d**k. We just don't always ACT on those thoughts. But you can pretty much cross-triangulate all major moves by men around their 'Jim Browski'.
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 08:02 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ok Abm since men always think with their d**ks.Why is that? I mean in this era of aids and Lord only knows what else is out their we have yet to learn about.What would make a man risk it all just for a peice of a**?
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 10:57 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Soulofaauthor,

Hmmm?...Let me see.

How do I explain this to someone who DON'T (operative word) have a d**k?

Hmmm?

Okay. Here goes. There's the... But, no. Well, there's this part of...no. Okay. See, when GOD made the... Naw, that don't work either. Bettah not blame that HIM! Hmmmm?

All, Hell, Baby girl! I can't explain it!

But give me some time (got a few lifetimes to spare?). Maybe I'll think of something (which will probably a convenient 'lie') and I'll get back to you (if the sun and moon don't explode first).
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 12:32 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Having a "d**K" has NOTHING to do with it.

The fact is...males are socialized to enjoy their sexuality, they are encouraged by the media and the society to sexualize women and are patted on the back for how many conquests they can rack up.

When a man is promiscuous...women will say "Boys will be boys".

Females, however...are DEMONIZED if they try to enjoy the same sexual freedom and VARIETY of PARTNERS that men are EXPECTED to aquire.

A woman is socialized that her sexuality...is to be owned by MEN. She is to be "virtuous" by saving herself for one man only and by being chaste and non-sexual. OTHER WOMEN, through social modes like RELIGION keep most women in line by enforcing the men's ownership of women's sexuality and their "respectability".

For instance, if I were to say that my favorite sexual experiences were with two men at the same time and that I deliberately set this up often for myself---then I am immediately perceived as a whore and a bad person (whereas a man would be patted on the back for his conquests and given a pass--because of his "d**k"). Notice how ABM willingly uses that excuse and feels comfortable in doing so--because it absolves him of any wrongdoing or any moral impropriety. The fault is his "d**K" and therefore, he doesn't need a moral cloak. We will all continue to accept him...talk to him, socialize with him and RESPECT him--because he's a male.

But if I talk about my devotion to Thomas and the wonderful sons he's given me---then I am a good black woman who should be respected as a "mother" and people will imagine that I am "dignified".

WOMEN...have just as much sexual curiosity, desire and wanderlust as MEN do....but we are suppressed by MEN's ownership of our sexuality and MEN's ownership of our respectability...usually via Religious Tenets that females adhere to...while men do what they want to do.

That's why I'm a womanist.

I reject man-made religions and I own my own sexuality, and when I was young and single, I enjoyed being a so called "whore" ...and today...I would recommend that all young women in their 20's 1)go for their education 2) establish a career and 3) Sew their wild oats (albeit safely)....as frequently and as vigorously as possible.

And if I were not married to a wonderful man now--I would still be a WHORE now, but a much smarter and careful one than KOBE.

I never admired the suppressed lives of church women and "respectable ladies". It's just a CON that men inflict on females, and most of those women are closet freaks anyway----from not getting enough.





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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 02:36 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Okay. May I NOW provide a MALE perspective on this issue?


Hey,

If a chick wannabe a skeezer, dat’s fine by me. Twirl dat thang, Baby! Heck! I might even show you a good time or few myself. Jus lemme grab a grip of industrial strength Trojans and the party’s on like popco’n.

But I sure ain’t going to marry you. And I won’t for the following reasons:

1) You nasty!
2) How will I know the kids are mine?
3) For the same reasons guys toss their ol briefs: parts of them lost their ‘elasticity’.
4) I can’t handle the thought of you comparing me to (so many) other guys, including the members of the USC’s college football team you used to hang out with.
5) What if during sex, you start sighing out the names of all the starting five of the NBA LA Lakers, and the Clipper, and the Golden State Warriors etc. et al.
Oh...and 6)...

...You nasty!

Seriously, I too think a chick should get her row off ("albeit safely"). Just keep what/who you did or where/how you did it to yourself. Because I can handle your once having been a Sunset Blvd streetwalker...so long as I NEVER, EVER, EVEREVEREVER hear-tail about it.

Now. Unlike what is being blared above, I don’t think most guys crave the Virgin Mary. Because, one, these days, who wants to go the trouble of re-conditioning her psyche from all the pre-sex romantic delusions she’s been dealt and now have to put her through full-fledged freak training only for it possible not being worth the trouble after all the work is done. That can be frustrating. And two, we guys may be slow, but know the Victorian Age ended about 100 years ago, so the whole notion of the a chaste/pure woman borders on the insane.

I agree there is a lot of tacit acceptance of male infidelity. But most guys, even those who cheat, would admit that sleeping around on their wives and girlfriends is wrong. They do it because there is sort of a maniacal moment that comes over a man when he feels as though if I don’t get THAT particular piece of p@$$% right now, well then, I may as well just go off somewhere and kill myself. Of course that’s totally stupid. But it’s also valid/true state of mind.

Maybe some brilliant female scientist will invent a vaccination for this.

The reason why it is difficult to reinforce more responsible behavior amongst men is all men understand what’s going on, even when they themselves can manage to behave more responsibly (or at least fool others into thinking they are).

So I guess to make us all act-right, all of womanhood would have band together in a united front and say, "THAT’S ENUFF. Act right, or you’re cut-off"...and mean it.

And I read somewhere that 1,000’s years ago some Grecian women band together and denied their men seck to stop a war. And it allegedly worked.

So I guess there is anecdotal evidence that something of this nature might work.

Or men would become rabid dawgs and there would be rapes occurring at bus stops during the morning rush hour.

So, I don’t know what we do.

I can’t advise too much useful advice here. But I will say the following: Ladies, if you have some pretty, skanky or emotionally vulnerable friends, WHATEVERYOUDO, don’t for very long leave them unescorted around your man! Because I don’t care how good/decent he is, you never know when that maniacal moment pounces on him. And the next thing you know you are having to call a divorce attorney...and buy new mattresses and bed linen.


PS: Well, I am beyond this stage in my life now ("Honestly I am, Baby!") But, back in dah day, if a chick told me she liked it with more than one dude at a time, I really only had one other thing to say to her..."Can I go first?" ~"It ain't no fun, if dah homie can't haaaaave none!"~(Snoop Dog)
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 02:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

But you just proved my point ABM.

In your "maleness" you're allowed to be selfish and to set BOUNDARIES (supported by the society) of what you will not accept in WOMEN---not only that, but the society, because I'm female, would also prohibit my existence but would accept and champion your immoral attitude and behavior.

What I expressed...was the same exact NASTINESS that you owned and claimed just a few minutes ago.

You're a sexist pig, my love.

Just like a typical sexist...you wrote a post in which you acted, BELIEVED and behaved as though "LOVE" from YOU and "RESPECT" from YOU...would be MY priorities in USING you and other males for sex.

It never dawned on you that you and that punk bitch SNOOP FROG are just two more "d**ks" to be compared to the ones I had before and the ones coming after.

I HAVE NO SHAME, Mr. corn nibblets for nuts.

You're all a bunch of dickheads.

And for the record...I could give a shit if you know who your kids are--in fact, I might just leave the newborn bastards ON YOUR FRONT LAWN....and the only reason I'd have to buy any more condoms or new mattresses...than you do...is because, as a female, I'm more likely to be cleaner and smarter---and dare I say it----far more exclusionary and deductive in my "pleasure" picks.

Skank, Skeezer and Whore...are all words that accurately describe married men like yourself ABM who think it's your "d**k's" fault...that you're a bunch of skanks, skeezers and whores.

I notice you don't enjoy WOMEN expressing the same sexual bravado as you claim for yourself---but what's good for the goose, is good for the gander.

****After all..many daughters and daddy's girls....grow up to be JUST LIKE their whorish father's. And with the example you set...what could be wrong with it?








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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 03:00 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Tell me ABM...'cause you said that you run and used to be an athlete...

....how big are your legs now? You got calfs and muscle thighs for me, boy??

How's that ass on you?? You keep that gluteos maximous nice and tight don't you??

COME ON NOW...you've got to at least be close to what I saw on LAMBD in order for the HOMIES to get used.

When was the last time you had your wife take a ruler and measure that little joystick of mines??

I'd sure love to know the results--to help my decision out.

Then again, you might be a good strong licker. Some guys get over with just that.

Tell me...how much MAN are you at this stage of the game old grayhead MASTER of my fantasies???

Come on MEAT STICK. Spill out.




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ABM---

You say that men will admitt that their "WHOREMONGERING" is wrong--even though society accepts infidelity from them.

But 1) IS that supposed to be some consellation prize for us wives...right before and after you run out to do it again?

The fact that you admitt it's wrong and doggish behavior?

Well, let me tell you something from YEAR 2004, MEAT PAPA...."wooof, wooof."

I can rip meat off the bones, too.

Here..you hold the wedding ring and the white veil while I go get MY rocks off.

Cause I want to have fun, too, you big fine sexy MEAT ON A STICK.

"d**k" is good.

"d**k" is REAL good.


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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 03:09 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Skank, Skeezer and Whore...are all words that accurately describe married men like yourself ABM who think it's your "d**k's" fault...that you're a bunch of skanks, skeezers and whores.

Come right on over and meet your MATCH.

MUSHROOM HEAD.

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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 03:13 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Miss_wysteria,

If I had met you about 16 years ago, we would have been good friends...

...fell in love...

...married...

...had beautiful children...

...a warm home...

...and shared fond times/memories...

...but, alas...

...I fear that one of us would have probably killed the other by now.
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 03:23 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Well, OK....now you've totally weakened me ABM.

Because I certainly do prefer the married life, mothering my two boys and being content with the comfort of a good man.

AND...I believe that we would NOT have killed one another.

You forget that Thomas is also a sexist pig like you---and that I love him madly and am greatly devoted to him. I happy to be his slave.

So I would have made you much happier than you think.

It's just...I'm a hell of a conversationalist...and yes, like Tom-Trojan...I would have you shouting and shaking your finger in the air---"YOU LISTEN WOMAN!!!" LOL

You left out wild, animalistic arty sex on that list by the way.

(Wink) I love you, King.


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Miss_wysteria
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 03:25 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

See girls....a man alludes to/promises "marriage" and we get weak and lose our resolve.

ABM got me on that post.

I lost all my venom.



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Abm
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 03:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Miss_wysteria,

I don't know about the rest of you fellas, I am salivating so much I'm going to have to grab a dribble cup.

Dang!

I DIDN'T intend for you to stop.

Please! Please! PULEASE don’t stop!

All the raw, naikid agression was so savory, I swear I could just about ‘smell’ you.


PS: I guess I did mention sex because the he "wild, animalistic arty" thang has been pretty much implicit in everything that has gone down between us.
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 04:05 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

The SECRET about me, ABM....is that I am EVERYTHING you would want. And 16 years ago, I would have been 19 or 20--you would've had to club me over the head with a stick. But then again, I didn't know any black men as savvy and brilliant as you--so I'm sure I would have been in awe and been weak to your demands.

But I was just thinking.

If we were now, today, married 16 years...I suppose by now that you would be having affairs with A_Womon (younger woman) and Moonsigns (white woman).

I would be a lonely housewife and angry feminist writer, aka former sex kitten, seeking ...SAFE... flirtations with anonymous black men on the internet...to ward off my loneliness....and flying off to Chicago to give pep talks to black lesbians.

It's so sad being what men and society want you to be.

You can waste your whole life. (tear)


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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 04:35 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Miss_wysteria,

I know you are what you claim.

But how would you know, what I would do, were I, indeed with you?


My sister. We are all lonesome, in one way or another. Our lonely simply manifest in different way.

So, were I ever yours...

I would be a weak man, doing the best that I can, so that you would be me.
But I dare never say, that true I would alway stay, cuz there’s so much p@$$%.

Still, do you not cry, theirs no reason why, for you to not be happy.
No matter what I do, I’ll always be true, to what let’s you fly free.
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 04:55 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

And...what more could I ask ABM?


.

Except that you love me enough...to never let me find out about A_Womon and Moonsigns.

Humiliation is what stops the blood in a woman.

And Black women in this country lay at the ider of the road by now.

Signaling the someday fall and death of hoped for sons.

The doom of your shooting white jism.

Killing us/and Killing YOU.





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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 05:11 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Please do me a Big Favor and leave my freakin name OUT of this stupidity!!!!!!
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 05:15 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Miss_wysteria,

I would do honor to you

And exalt you above all of Earth’s mothers

For I, like you, believe in making what I am

It is indeed what I have made


But every day, I crave


I hunger

And I must feed


So do I not feast...

...even when it be with mine enemy

Or do I starve

Do I whither

Do I die


Perhaps I should expire

May be it be best that I do


But tell me

What will YOU do...

...then...

...when...

...I am gone


What will YOU do?
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 05:17 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Miss_wysteria,

Yes. Leave her be. She is not prepared to for 'this'.
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Miss_wysteria
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 05:37 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

ABM, of course if you die---so do I.

That's what the "prose siloquy" was about.

The death of us as a family unit, as has happened so often fo African societies and cultures--because the men are so weak, selfish and irresistable.



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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 06:34 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You two are really sickening. Can you exchange emails or something so that we can get back to talking about how fine I am and my celestial eyes and broad shoulders. I want to hear some more of that shytt! I really wish you two would get a room already. Sheesh!
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Miss_wysteria
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 07:09 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

LOL

No, Lambd...ABM is married (and has vowed never to meet me in person), so it's you and I who have to get that room (wink).

JK

although...I'm not kidding.

CUZ YOU ARE SO SEXY. LOL

Yeah...you do have broad shoulders!!

I have a picture of you, but I will NEVER post it on my website or show anyone here.

You're all mines, killa.





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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 07:14 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I like cheese.
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Posted on Wednesday, September 08, 2004 - 07:31 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

As a matter of fact, LAMBD...I now have handsome photos of YOU, Carey and Chris Hayden that no one has access to....but ME.

>>>I'm cheesing like a baby doll<<<<<<<

Sigh...

If only I could get a picture of ABM.



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Posted on Thursday, September 09, 2004 - 10:39 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Miss_wysteria,


I was made to initiate life.

That gnawing urge reflects that most precious purpose.

To deny it would mean to deny me.

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