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Afroerotik
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Username: Afroerotik
Post Number: 60
Registered: 01-2006
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Votes: 6 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 04:19 pm: | 
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Brought to you by AfroerotiK
I AM a Strong Black man and as such . . .
• I will speak to women as human beings, not as potential sex partners, not as someone with less value than myself, not someone I must dominate in order to validate my manhood.
• I will not plan out how I can get a woman into bed before I even introduce myself.
• I will not judge a woman’s beauty, worth or value by the length of her hair, the length of her fingernails, the roundness of her behind or the size of her feet, and most importantly, the color of her skin, just as I would not want to be judged by the length of my penis, the size of my wallet, the car I drive, or the amount of money I make.
• I will make every effort to make sure women know that they are safe when they are in my presence. I will not touch, grope, or physically intimidate them and I will not make unwanted sexual advances towards them.
• I will NOT strike, restrain, or threaten a woman.
• I will accept that if a woman says no, she means she’s not interested in me sexually and that is her right. I will never force a woman to have sex with me.
• I will ask my women friends, sisters and acquaintances what makes them feel undervalued, unappreciated and objectified and I will listen closely and make efforts to correct those things that I do wrong.
• When a woman tells me something is insensitive, demeaning, or offensive, I will not dismiss it immediately as male bashing. I will take her critique just as I would expect someone to consider mine.
• I will find something other than a woman’s looks to compliment her about. I will make note of her intellect, her personality, her ideas, her imagination, and her accomplishments.
• I will acknowledge that my mother, sister, and daughters are black women, deserving of respect, and I will work to treat ALL Black women as I would have other men treat the women in my life.
• I will accept responsibility for my wrongdoings, I will not lie in an attempt to get away with my misdeeds, I will apologize when I’ve done something wrong and I will deal with the consequences of my actions by facing them head on.
• I will not partake in conversations with other men when they are ridiculing women’s looks, bodies, or opinions.
• I will remove the words •••••, ho, trick, chicken head, and all other derogatory names for women from my vocabulary because I recognize them to be sexist and degrading.
• I will not refer to sex with a woman as hitting it, killing it, stabbing it, or anything that has violent connotations nor will it diminish the humanity of a woman by referring to sex with her as getting “it” or getting “some”
• I will not define my manhood by the length of my penis, I will define my manhood as fulfilling promises I keep, in having integrity, in choosing mature solutions to problems and how I can be honest even when it’s difficult.
• I will speak out when I see other men disrespecting women.
• I will not refer to myself as a pimp, a dog, a thug, or a baller because I will not let racist stereotypes define me.
• I will learn how to communicate my feelings rather than deny I have them or trying to suppress them with sex, drugs, adrenaline, or alcohol.
Copyright 2007 Scottie Lowe
Tired of seeing black women being portrayed as ghetto bitches, freaks and whores, and black men as barely literate thugs, bulls, and pimps, Scottie Lowe decided it was time to show black people in a positive sexual light. Ms. Lowe is the sole owner and founder of www.AfroerotiK.com, a company dedicated to eradicating the negative and stereotypical depictions of Black sexuality and providing customized, personalized erotic stories for and about people of color. Her innovative approach to writing Black erotica is shattering misperceptions and opening the doors to dialogue about subjects long considered taboo.
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Schakspir
Veteran Poster
Username: Schakspir
Post Number: 876
Registered: 12-2005
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Votes: 2 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 05:03 pm: |
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Stop. This is so trite and Howard University freshmanish. |
Lil_ze
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Username: Lil_ze
Post Number: 842
Registered: 01-2006
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Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 05:09 pm: |
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gee, more attempts to get free advertizing.
i thought we had seen the last of this phony, porn producer looking for free publicity.
but i was wrong.
what the hell is wrong with looking at a woman as a "potential sex partner"?
why the hell would i "speak out" when i see other men disrespecting women?
so i can be assaulted or killed for sticking my nose in other peoples business, that does not concern me?
notice there is NO call for women to speak out when they see other women being disrespectful toward MEN.
i hope there is a black woman's manifesto that includes this.
why can't women looks, bodies, or opinions be ridiculed?
why would i look to compliment a woman on something other than her looks?
looks are the most important thing (hehehehehe)!
so when a woman says something insulting or demeaning to a man, the man is supposed to "take her critique".
but men are not supposed to ridicule women?
wtf?
if a woman is attacking you physically, you are not supposed to restrain her?
i guess you should just allow an insane female attack you.
" i will never force a women to have sex with me".
very insightful point.
until i read this "manifesto" i though it was everymans birthright to force women into sex.
thanks for enlightening me.
in order to get a female into bed you have got to do some planning.
whats wrong with planning to get a female into bed?
ms. lowe, why don't you spend some money and take out a radio or newspaper ad, in order to sell your porn?
why must you post under the guise of "opening doors to dialouge", when you are just a fake who is trying to get rich, selling trash.
have a great day! |
Mzuri
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Mzuri
Post Number: 3726
Registered: 01-2006
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 05:36 pm: |
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Advertise on!!! I approve of this post and I like the porn  |
Schakspir
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Username: Schakspir
Post Number: 877
Registered: 12-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 05:44 pm: |
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Lil_ze, a closet fairy wrote it. There's the problem. The only men who can't possibly look upon women as potential ••••-partners(as if women don't do the same) are gays. Chalk one up for the omnipresent Gay Mafia. |
Schakspir
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Username: Schakspir
Post Number: 878
Registered: 12-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 05:51 pm: |
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Also note: this invective is directed solely at black men. Not Latino men, not white men, not Asians, not Jews, not Arabs. Only NEGRO MALES. Read between the lines: black men are naturally violent, lazy and oversexed, and must accept the civilizing hand of a good missionary.
F.u.c.k. this patronizing asshole. |
Mzuri
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Mzuri
Post Number: 3727
Registered: 01-2006
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Votes: 3 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 05:56 pm: |
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Or could it be that he's a Black man and that this is a Black ppl forum? Stop reading between the lines. |
Lil_ze
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Username: Lil_ze
Post Number: 845
Registered: 01-2006
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 06:16 pm: |
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schakspir, you are SO right.
i love it when some woman or effeminate male claims to have the "keys" to civilizing the "savage black male".
read between the lines is right.
what this con-person is REALLY saying is-
black men have a inclination toward forcing women into sex.
blackmen are physically violent toward women.
blackmen are gulity of using slurs against black women.
blackmen have "one track minds" and can ONLY think of sex when dealing with a female.
blackmen are not "mature" enough to deak with their feelings.
blackmen need drugs or alcohol in order to "hide" from the truth.
blackmen associate violence with sex or physical relationships.
blackmen cannot accept no from a woman, when it comes to sex.
blackmen cannot see women in any other way than "sexual objects".
of course this "manifesto" is only directed toward blackmen, because (naturally) blackmen are solely guilty of these things.
of couse blackmen need to be taught how to be humans, and not just the "sex crazed, violent, thugs" they are.
and the person who will teach blackmen the error of their savage ways is the author of this "manifesto".
if this were a joke, you might be able to laugh.
but some jerk (male or female) who thinks they are somehow "uplifting" blackmen from their "beast-like" existance, by repeating (and really attempting to affirm) all of the b.s. rhetoric that is spewed about blackmen, is really just sad.
but understanding that some people will do or say anything in order to be noticed or gain wealth, its no surprise.
READ BETWEEN THE LINES IS RIGHT!!!!!!!!
you don't have to be a "rocket scientist" to see what this "alleged" author is REALLY trying to say.
schakspir-PEACE!!!!!!!!! |
Cynique
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Cynique
Post Number: 7580
Registered: 01-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 07:54 pm: |
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LMAO.I luv it. I don't know who's funnier Afroerotik or Schakspir and Lil-Z. |
Ntfs_encryption
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Ntfs_encryption
Post Number: 1935
Registered: 10-2005
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2007 - 01:09 pm: |
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Well, Lil_ze, no one can ever accuse you of being vague or not speaking your mind. Ha! Ha! Ha!Ha! Ha!
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