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Bleekindigo
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 04:18 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hi-Moonsigns,

I am asking because I am genuinely interested, not at all to be malicious.

What keeps you coming back to Thumpers Corner? What keeps you posting? You take the lickin' and keep right on clickin'--at that keyboard here. Why? I mean besides your first amendment right to do so? Is being here really worth gettin' your hair pulled everyday? What is it here that stimulates you? ABM BEHAVE!!!!

Bleek
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 05:03 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Bleek,

I have no problem with you asking the questions you asked. You, like Abm (and Cynique) have always been respectful, though you disagree with me on many things. That says a lot about the kind of human beings all of you are. In short, I respect that quality in people.

To me, Thump's is a reflection of the real world. Many of the topics discussed here are relevant and a mirror of our culture. They are also topics that I've encountered in everyday life, and because I married into a family that happens to be black.

I stay here for two reasons, one, I'm indifferent to the ideas people have about me, especially when they don't know me (afterall, this is the internet for goodness sakes). And second, I do read more than this forum (culture, race, economy). I love reading about the book selections, poetry and general conversations. It has increased my interest in reading the work of authors I hadn't been exposed to. It also enlightens me and helps me to understand and value the opinions of those that have different life experiences (race aside --there are blacks that have different life experiences).

I don't view myself as "gettin' my hair pulled out everyday" or takin' a "lickin", either. Reason being, I don't take it to heart. In the many years of dating/marriage, I have heard so much garbage from all kinds of folks, both male and female, and every race/color. Years ago, I finally got to the point that I knew it was useless and a waste of MY energy to care what others think (in many respects). Here, I understand that my race makes me a scapegoat for some people's unreconciled (and in some cases justitified) rage. However, it is not a reflection of who I AM as a person. I remove myself emotionally.

I don't feel included, but I don't feel excluded. I guess I'm indifferent. I take more from the board than most of you would understand, or care to. All in all, it helps me to treat people in everyday life with respect, compassion and honesty. All in all, it's about me and my personal growth outside of here.

That's it.

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Miss_wysteria
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 05:11 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

She keeps bringing her sorry, pale faced Caucasoid ass back here, because she's a typical two-faced WIFE OF A KNEE-GROW who thinks she's doing US some kind of "favor" by gracing US with her arrogant, Queen Anne of the Ghetto presence.

I wish the hell we could all meet in person, because I'd beat the LIVING SHIT out of that rat-in-the-wall double talking dick breathed semen-pantied bitch.

I really tried to be friends with MOON and I really accepted her...

but her true colors keep showing like a flag at a goddamned CLAN RALLY and then she has the nerve to try and dictate....to ME....a Nilotic woman, the black man's mother....what I am and who I can and cannot fuck.

As if I ever said that her HUSBAND shouldn't choose a white woman.

Which isn't what I said....

.....WHAT I POINTED OUT WAS ..."WHY".....he SETTLED for a white woman and WHY "A_Womon" found her ass so annoying....but Moon-Shit isn't WOMAN ENOUGH to face the truth, because she can never keep track of just WHICH FACE she's looking at.

Typical White American bitch!!

And she thinks we're interested in having her DRIVEL forced down our throats like AIDS patients in Africa or something.

....she's so busy being Miss American Manners of Eurocentric PROTOCOL that she can't hear straight.

Mouse faced dog-haired dingbat.

It's her.....who pulled MY AFRICAN HAIR.

And I'm not from her land...and I don't care what OPRAH told her, I'm not her goddamned sister....I will kill a bitch like her over my crown.

Pink-toed sticky-tongued spoiled milk complexioned MARKED DOWN bitch.

MARKED the fuck DOWN!!!!!!

And her TWEENIE children, too.

Bleached booger CRACKER WHYY-N-CH





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Miss_wysteria
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 05:21 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Now how's that for immature and irrational?

BITCH





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Cynique
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 05:23 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Somebody's off their meds again.
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Miss_wysteria
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 05:23 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

And unless she wants her face broken...she'd better not say a goddamned thing else to me.

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A_womon
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 05:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Bleek, she DONT get it and NEVER will. I bet She is lovin the fact that you addressed an entire thread to her stupid azz though...
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Carey
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 10:02 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Someone said: "I take more from the board than most of you would understand, or care to".

Y'all po' nigras don't understand see, cause she's "different" than "MOST OF YOU".

I can't believe I read that.
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Jmho
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 10:54 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Someone also said:
I wish the hell we could all meet in person, because I'd beat the LIVING SHIT out of that rat-in-the-wall double talking dick breathed semen-pantied bitch

Why are some people so violent? Someone disagrees with what you say then you threat to hurt them? Or start name calling? Making such physical threats over the internet seems bizarre. Especially coming from one who claimed to also have been threaten.

Moonsigns, I knew you knew, that no matter how you answered, some would take issue with your response, just because you answered. I respect you reasoning(s) for coming to board to read and post, as I do nearly everyone else. Yep, there are always an exception or two. :-)
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A_womon
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 11:00 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Whatever!
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A_womon
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 11:07 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

And JHMO have you been reading this board? YOUR GIRL has been known to do some name calling too ON THIS BOARD, so don't come up in here trying to act like she is the "poor defenseless white chick" who wants nothing more than what she is ENTITLED to. Save ya breath, we heard it ALL before!
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A_womon
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 11:30 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You, like Abm (and Cynique) have always been respectful, though you disagree with me on many things. That says a lot about the kind of human beings all of you are

Somebody please explain to me why this chick is always talkin about somebody being respectful toward her azz like it is a requirement that you HAVE to meet? WHO in the HELL told her that she got it like that? Where I'm from RESPECT is something you earn, not something youre ENTITLED to.

Now yall good nigras that are being bestowed with a response and a reading from her whiteness bettah mind that you don't get too uppity now and speak too harshly or you aint gone git no mo white words!

F*CK that and anybody who thinks like that!
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Cynique
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 11:52 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hate just doesn't erupt spontaneously in a person's heart, a-womon. That's why I have a problem with your intense hostility toward Moonsigns. You are the product of your past experiences, and there's a thin line between love and hate. You need to become acquainted with the merits of "indifference" instead of letting your hate get the best of you. (And if you want to bring my feud with Kola into the discussion, I will say that I am exhilarated by these exchanges, whereas Moonsigns drives you up the wall.)
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A_womon
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Posted on Thursday, September 30, 2004 - 11:57 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Are you inside my head Cynique? If not tell me how you know how moonsigns affects me? And of course you are going to downplay your hatred for KOLA and make my feelings toward moonsigns into something totally different. Your hatred for KOLA CONSUMES you, so don't try to give me none of your self righteous BS. I am just more honest about it than you.
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:00 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Cynique,

Are you saying its ok for you to hate Kola because she black and therefore your intense hostility toward her is more acceptable? Am I to conclude that were Kola white, then you would feel less inclined to treat her with such venom???
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Cynique
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:05 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Did I say I hated Kola? I said I enjoyed sparring with her. She stimulates my creative processes. And Kola is the one hung up color. That's all she talks about when she attacks me. Color don't mean shit to me. I like who I like. And you are NOT going to tell me that you don't hate Moonsigns.
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:15 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I am not a liar, but I WILL tell you this AGIN.
I hate the ISH that moonsigns says about black people on this board, an African American forum. And I hate that black people like you defend her azz no matter WHAT she says. AND I hate that she FEELS that she doesn't OWE any of YOU moonsign protectors, the same RESPECT that she f*ckin trots up in here and DEMANDS. I HATE her arrogance! I asked you before now I will ask you again---Would YOU go into a white forum and start telling them what you don't like about how they run things??? WoULd you???? Would you go up in there and start droppin ish about Donald Trump's white corporate BS? And if you had the nerve to do that, would any of their white asses come to YOUR defense and defend you no matter what you said????? Now I told you so quit guessing THIS IS WHAT I HATE. So stop tryin to put your spin on what I think about moonsigns cause it aint going to change a damn thang that I think about her. So what exactly are you trying to accomplish?
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:15 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

A_womon,

In the end, I just wanna talk/learn. And I'll take that pretty much where I can get it. Pardon me. But that's just kinda the way I'm built.

Hell! I'll read Nazi propaganda if I can use some of it to score an advantage in a business deal...or get some p@$$%.

But that does not mean that just because someone says something that it must ALWAYS mean something to me. And I always reserve the right to use what they say to benefit me in a way that they might NEVER realize.
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:19 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

WOW ABM You missed it. I tried to post at the exact moment that you did and our posts were out there in thumperland at the same instant in time and they were paralell each other! I mean actually side by side. FREAKY!!

Have you ever seen that happen???
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:22 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

A_womon,

I WOULD and very frequent HAVE done ALL the stuff you appear to be daring others to do.

Baby, I have closed down million dollar enterprises and had corporate vice presidents fired largely off the strength of my own opinion.

And almost ALL of those scenarios involved White foks.

So I am always a little amused by your notion that I would fear telling White foks a @AMN thing. Cuz frankly baby gurl, I do dat $#*+ ALL THE TIME!
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:22 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

And again I will state, that you can't possibly read my emotions on this board, and when you try 99 per cent of the time you are wrong. I am just passionate in what i believe and that's what alla yall feel when I post.

So stop trying to attribute what you think I feel to what I actually feel unless I specifically tell you what it is Im feeling!
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:33 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You'd be surprised how easy your emotions are to read on this board, a-womon. And I really haven't defended Moonsigns. I let her speak for herself. And you also need to consider that all black people don't think like you and see things they way you do. And who is to say whether the way you think has any more legtimacy than the way another black person thinks.
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:33 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

A_womon,

What I say here and particularly HOW I express myself her is more for YOUR benefit than it is for Moonsigns. But, as is often the case with people, you get so caught up in the detail you loose site of the grander scheme.

Look at how the world REALLY works.

The truth is, the foks who have the least power are often those who make their intentions and feelings most evident. And those most powerful will woo you with a glittering smile...just prior to slitting your exposed jugular vein.

So, again, I suggest and hope that you learn/apply some subtlety to how you confront your troubles and those who trouble you. :-)


PS: You didn't notice as we momentarily crossed paths in the cybernetic ether that I felt on your booty? (hehe!)
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:57 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

sO Cynique, and you know the reverse of what you say would also be true. Now you want to answer the questions that I have asked you at least twice?

ABm,
Didn't I ask you not to fantasize about me or my booty?
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 12:59 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

and here's the thing: aint it funny how you and abm will defend to the end moonsigns right to free speech and to voice her feelings, but you want me to censor mine?
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cynique said: And I really haven't defended Moonsigns. I let her speak for herself.

Hmmmmm aint it funny how she's only posted one reply on this thread? Who has done all the speaking here...
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 01:06 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

A_womon,

Okay. I'm done. You win. Say WHATEVER you want HOWEVER you want!

And you don't have to worry 'bout me saying anything thing about you or your booty anymore.
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 01:14 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I didn't know it was a contest. What do I get??
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 01:21 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Oh uncle 'M Uncle 'M please come back! I'm frightened, and alone, and... how'll I ever get outta OZ? Where's auntie Henry?? Oh I'm so confused!!!

I'm going to bed!
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 07:34 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

A_womon vehmently dislikes being disrespected in her own house.

Shifted = A-Womon is all broke down and goes around in a rage all day thinking about "her".

I think A_womon is more upset at the "closets" than she ever will be at someone simply visiting the site.
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Posted on Friday, October 01, 2004 - 08:12 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I agree with you Carey.

And on top of that....I tried to befriend MOON (because I honestly do think she's a nice person with good intentions)...the problem is....she's still cloaked in the privileage of her "white supremacy" and not only doesn't see it.....but with all her intelligence...she REFUSES to see it!

That's where I got sick of her. And she IS arrogant.

As well....she and OTHERS can't "hear".

Because she seems to really believe that I'm AGAINST "interracial love"---which I most certainly AM NOT against.

I have dated outside of my race many times and would do it again if a nice guy presented himself.

However, in 2004, with the vast majority of Black People suffering an "epidemic" of self-hatred (not LOVE) that is now coming to the fore....and at a time when the MEDIA is encouraging us to breed ourselves out of existence and has placed "Dating a White Person" as the HIGHEST achievement in the Black Community.....

....I don't feel that I should be setting that example for my people at this time.

20 years ago, I would have FOUGHT for Moon and her husband's right to love one another.

But today it seems that any uneducated white WAITRESS can walk up and marry the most educated, successful, richest Black Man in the community....solely on the basis that her white skin brings STATUS.

Moon can't understand the difference in someone pointing out the logistics of these relationships.....and someone being OPPOSED to something NATURAL...which is what interracial "love" is...NATURAL.

Self-hatred however is not natural. Wanting to see a whole race of people bastardized and their culture breeded off the planet is not natural.

There is a distinction.

And I too was really sick of Moon's arrogant talking down. I might tolerate it from Cynique (mommie dearest), but I don't take that off white women.

I most certainly would WHOOP her ass and I owe JMHO an ass-whooping, as well. Fink coward.

And as for ABM, A_Womon, he loves watching us all fight and he's only loyalty is to his penis. He had the nerve to talk about hoping his daughters marry young the other day......like the typical black man......he thinks his own daughters won't be affected by the ruptures in the black community that WE are ignoring "now", rather than fixing....and that HIS GIRLS will somehow be treated differently and will have better prospects than the rest of us--because HE is their father and such a good one---and you know how that goes. ABM has "always" ignored the reality of the SPECIAL PREJUDICE that black men have traditionally reserved for black women--he tends to blame black girls and makes excuses for the males behavior (boys will be boys)---and doesn't realize that MORE THAN LIKELY, when his daughters DO marry--they'll have to SETTLE rather than be satisfied, because there is a paradigm shift now taking place in the black community where these "stereotypes" and "de-valuing" of black women are increasing rather than abating.

Of course, he's not a woman.

But I do understand how conversing with ABM with regard to MOON...can make you feel so disconnected and alone. That's how I feel and that's why I get pissed at his ass, because he just doesn't understand that the PLAYING FIELD is not LEVEL.....and until it is......black women will always harbor an "irrational", "resentful" tone....OR....will be like BLEEk and CYNIQUE....quietly submerging their TRUE FEELINGS, being ladylike and portraying "indifference"...when their feelings, in reality, are just as resentful as OURS.

Some of us, like me, CRY IN PUBLIC. Because it's the greatest strength....the strength of honesty and vulnerability.

I am not a strong black woman. I am a LIVING woman. And I have learned...not to lessen my own torch so that others can be more comfortable and live off my sorrow and my "LACK" of status.

Audre Lord said: "Our silence will not protect us."

Black women had better wake up.

IMO

Fuck MOON!!!

That dried up sperm stain deserves every rotten thing we've said to her.

And I've said worse to white women on national television--but, of course, they cut it out. Because they talk their shit, but they can't handle the truth. And especially not from an African woman who KNOWS what the hell she's talking about.

WHITE WOMEN AIN'T SHIT!!! And it's a worldwide phenomenom.










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I'm sure y'all had some semi-interesting things to say in your endless posts that go on and on, but I know how you all stand on the situation because you never say anything new so I just scrooooooll on down because I ain't wasting my time ingesting all your stale ruminations. Suffice to say that I don't care what you think, and I'm assuming that you don't care what I think. So just keeping venting on and on and on. Moonsigns is driving you folks crazy. But I ain't letting the subject of her sap up any more of my energy. See ya! My coffee's ready.
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Jmho,

You're right. I knew that there would be some issue regardless of what my response was.

I'm not saying you or anyone has to agree with me, not even one time, but I do thank you for being civil and respectful in your response. My heart and mind are always open to the ideas of those that can communicate their opinions in a balanced manner/tone.



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Miss_wysteria,

I admit I usually enjoy a catfight like all get out. But it seems now that that is what so frequently occurs here, it has all just become a blinding form of "WHITE noise" of which no one will be able to see clear of.

What should we do here?

Should we (incessantly) continue to belabor that which is clear and obvious: That since Moonsigns is a White woman she will invariably say/do things that appear insensitive and unsympathetic to Blacks and other minorities?

Will the revelations ever cease?

Well, as suggested by Cynique, I guess I don't much expect what either of us thinks/says will make much difference to what the other knows to be true.


At the risk of appearing arrogant, I'll say that I (you and others) daily offer here much for a A_womon and others to consider/use that have NOTHING to do with the concerns you express above. Thus, I would hope that they fairly weigh that against whatever differences we have concerning the (alleged) follies of White women.


Finally, I genuinely am concerned about what mating opportunities will be available to my daughters to love and marry. I, however, think the greatest trouble they face is not whether/if they will be displaced by White women.

Rather, I'm more concerned my daughters male peers will be drug addicted, mired in criminality, unproductive, physically/mentally impaired, "on the DL" and/or HIV/VD+. Because it is THOSE issues, not interracial coupling/marriage, that I foresee to be their/our gravest concerns.
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Rather, I'm more concerned my daughters male peers will be drug addicted, mired in criminality, unproductive, physically

wHAT THE MESS!???? Maybe you ARE white on the sneak tip or Bill Cosby's long lost brother talking BULLSH*T like that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!No wonder you so rigidly advocate moonsigns NONSENSE!
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A_womon,

Why don't you calm down, find you a good man, have/raise some kids, buy a home, pay some property taxes, pay school tuition, haggles with teachers/administrators, volunteer for school fund drives, attend/speak-up at your local town council meetings, grows some vegetables (dang rabbits), replace a central air system...and a sump-pump, shoo newly-erectile teen boys away from your daughters and start/operate a business.

Then...

Come on back over to ol' ABM. Because maybe THEN we can have an ADULT conversation.
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Abm,

So true, interracial dating is no threat to the black community.


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On a side note, people in general (all races included) are raising some really crazy children nowadays.

Hey Abm, you seem like you are raising upstanding, young women! Do you want to plan an arragnged marriage for one of your children? :-)

Just kidding! But really, I think our culture is producing some of the most selfish and lazy children EVER. I too, am curious about the opportunities that will be available to them --and I don't care what color/race person they marry either. QUALITY pickings seem rather slim across the board.

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Moonsigns,

What you decry is the result of the confluence of burgeoning wealth, technological developments and political/social freedoms. The more people have, the more we want, which result in our having more, then wanting more...'

The very worst thing that anyone can appear to be these days is humble...or mortal.

Don't like those smile lines or crowfeet? Or those small breasts? Or lil' penis? Fine. No problem. Your friendly-neighborhood plastic surgeon will 'swing' right-on by and 'cure' you of whatever inadequacies nature dealt to you.

Everyone expects to be wealthy, beautiful, and famous. And we want all of those PRONTO...no matter the limitations our GOD and life circumstances imposes upon us or the cost of achieving the objects of our desires. And when you WANT it all no matter the cost you'll just about DO it all, again, no matter the cost.

All of that has bred very lazy and selfish people.

And (I agree that) in that regard we ALL are suffering.


My wife and I often fantasize about being allowed to "arrange" marriages for our daughters. And if you're willing to subject your sons to a battery of physical/mental/DNA/IQ exams/tests, I might be game. I'm still not paying any dowry, though.

HEHE!

Of course arranging your kids' marriage is neither possible nor even appropriate in this day-n-time. I suspect though as the divorce rates and single-parent households continue to ascend, we all may be compelled to reconsider how best to formulate happy/productive couples; irrespective of race/religion and, yes I suppose, sex/gender.
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Posted on Saturday, October 02, 2004 - 11:35 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You don't owe any dowry, but you too, must be willing to subject your daughters to "a battery of physical/mental/DNA/IQ exam/tests", too. And don't forget, the criminal backround/credit check is also a must (my male children subject to this as well --all is fair). If you're down, I'm down :-) I'm sure the children will appreciate this! LOL!

All in all, I wonder how I'M going to handle this whole process. I'm very selective about who my children keep company with, my husband even moreso. There has to be an even balance in guiding them, as well as allowing them to make good choices for themselves.



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abm and moonsigns that is so cute!

my name is Stacey Henthoff and I'm new to the board. i happen to be white 2. comeon like that matters. and i mostly date black guys, not cuz i don't like my own race, but black guys are the one that always chase me, like 24/7 theres a black guy opening my door or asking for my digits, so those the ones i date.

makes perfect sense to me.

it would be so good if we could get over this race b.s. these women in here like that african beast kola are just jealous of you moonsigns. cuz you handle your bizness like a real woman not a screaming mimi! she is so racist! n

gee whiz! its like every little black woman is scared weare goine to take all their men. thats because they run them away. no peace a mind, no man. LOL

why cant people just live n let live? that's the only way to go.

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im not saying anything against the other women in here. just the two ones kola and A-womon. they are racist and jealous and it shows big/BIG/time. they need to quit.

i don't see color. i see love.


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Moonsigns,

HAHA!

Agreed and touché.

If your sons are handsome, funny and pleasant, I imagine my eldest wouldn't mind checking them out. My youngest, though, I don't know...she's got a pretty fierce streak of independence in her.

Of course, their standards are SKYHIGH (they both think their dad can walk on water. :-)). So your sons had bettah be prepped to 'represent'!

JEEZ!

I hope after all the testing, primping and prodding, the kids actually LIKE each other. Hehe!


Seriously, I don't expect to have much say in whom my kids mate with. And with girls I find I have to be careful to avoid being too deliberate and stern with how I steer them. I don't want to cow them into not enjoying their lives. And I don't want to spur on the rebel urge that will often cause even the most decent girl to do the opposite of what prohibiting parents would require.

I just do the best I can to provide them with rules, morals and standards that I hope will resonate within their minds, hearts and spirit. And when it is time for them to venture out into the world, I'll pretty much leave to GOD and them the marital choices they should make.
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I am viewing you with a jaundiced eye, JoJorules. Are you sure you aren't Kola taking on yet another identity in an attempt to make fools of us? (She's trixy and she's false, you know. heh-heh.)
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JoJorules--Like Cynique's, my eyes are jaundiced--but I have to say anyway that:

It is not race that needs to be gotten over, it is ignorance. Look into that.

You say that Kola and A-woman are racist. How so? Because they have no tolerance for Moonsigns?

Define racist.

You said your name is Stacey Henthoff and you are "white 2."

But you do not see race, you see love?

Stacey, they say ignorance is bliss. Chile you sound miiiighty- miiiighty blissful.

Bleek-

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Posted on Saturday, October 02, 2004 - 01:45 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

But then again Stacey, if you are in fact just "another identity", well then, maybe you were just created that way. And so, it's not really your fault or is it???

CYBIL??!?!?!?!
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Jojo YOU need to back up girl and check yaself, cause lord knows YOU definitely DON'T want none of THIS! But if you THINK you do, bring it on I'll tag that ass and send you crying to ya girl MOONSIGNS for support.

So bring it on Flippy anytime you ready! I aint flexed up here in a minute so Im ready willing and YOU better believe MORE THAN able. I know Moonsigns drug another dumb azz beotch up in here for back up!
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both A-womon and cynical R

BWONK!!!

wrong.

i am not any relation to moonsigns, i dont know her and i damned sure am not a topless racist from africa/thatwould be kola.

i did not come here to fight. i came here to say that i love black men because they love me and thats all there is to it.

people need to get over race just like abm n moonsigns were saying. the day is coming when its about perssonalities, not colors. marriage is a private affair wrote one african writer. shame miss kkk kola can't read THAT BOOK.

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BLEEK i dont understand the question.

come again?

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Well, Jojorules, I will be interested in seeing an exchange between you and Kola - when she gets to another computer. It will be like someone talking to herself, and I'll be laughing my ass off.
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please miss cynical. call me anE-body but old raciss azz kola.

never/never
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You're giving yourself away, Kola, because if JoJorules wasn't you, she'd be agreeing witih me. Oops I meant to call you Miss Wisteria, or Snake Girl or Sunshine or Passion or - JOJORULES. LMAO
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neh cynical.

i dont agree with you that im sposed to be kola n im getting tired of you calling me kola.

what is that reverse psychology?

i am nothing like that racist ego driven big mouth.

i see love, not color.

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Gotta give it to you, JoJo, you flew your hot-air plane into Thumper's Tower, and got everybody in an uproar, just like the Terrorists. But I ain't wasting any more of my time on this charade. So you can knock yourself out, spazzing about whatever.
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huh?????


you're like stacey on "apprentice". imagining things.

lol


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JoJo,

I am skeptical of your persona for many reasons. Nevertheless, I do have to say, I disagree with some of your assertions.

It is an insult to suggest that black women "chase" black men away, especially considering black men still date/marry black women more than they do any other race of women. A point for you to consider, if you procreate with any of these black men who "love" you so, your children usually are considered black. By the standards of your words, your daughters may not even have a man, their men will have "no peace of mind" if they get a man, and if they have one, they will "run them away" --all because they are black!!!???!!!!!! I hope you think about the weight of your words, as they not only hurt your future children, but the lives of your boyfriend/spouses female relatives.

While I disagree with Kola and A_womon, I don't think their anger is rooted in jealousy. I think it is rooted in the desire to been seen as an equal in our culture (and the injustices that blacks in general face for the basic, human rights).


I handle my business in a way that is becoming of a human who wants her rights, but also the rights of others just as much.

Most of the stuff you have wrote thus far I totally disagree with. We are both white (maybe) and that may be our only common ground.


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Posted on Saturday, October 02, 2004 - 03:29 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

JoJo....ummm....maybe...Jo..mswyst...ummmm

Anyway, you've been busted. Ignore my previous post.

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Moonsigns, I started reading this thread and stopped pretty close to the beginning, but I did want to say I loved your initial response to Bleekindigo's question. Especially your last two sentences.

-Tee

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BTW, welcome to the boards. I've been on a semi-hiatus from posting, so I wasn't around when you joined.
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Abm,

I'll write my response later!

:-)
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OH...so now I suppose you MOONSIGNS are going to claim that "I" am Jo Jo as well.

Right bitch???

Why am I not surprised?

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Tee,

Thanks! :-)
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AND TEE....

I suppose you're in agreement with MOONSIGNS as well? Right?

That this ingrate poster is me, too???

I'd like to really KNOW what you think.



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And while we're at it. I guess I'll email ABM and find out just what he thinks of all this.

I'd like to have his ACCUSATION on record, too.

From the horses's mouth.

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Moonsigns, I will tell you one time.

I am not JO JO.

But I do take this as a deliberate, direct ACTION on your part----to start a fight with me.

And it's really nasty and uncalled for---and frankly, I'm SURPRISED that "you" would start one, but...good.






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dayum!!!!!!!

i am so tempted to claim to be you miss kola-nut but your so not cool to me.

so moonsigns....i guess you think that you're the only white person that can post here or something? am i cramping your style?

i don't appreciate you calling me kola or even comparing me to that screaming mimi. your opinion is yours n i tried to give you some dap. u snub me n try to be cold like that. have it your way. but please dont disrespect me by calling me kola. n dont try to hog up the floor with a "1 white girl only" sign. because im here as long as i want to be.

so move over sister n share the attention.



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Ms Wysteria,

I have told you once already, I'm through reading your shyt. I have no care to "start a fight" with you, as I don't care about ANYthing you have to say. Knock yourself out shadowboxing.

When you're done, go back and read your I AM KOLA thread -the one you authored. You author that thread, then you write this mess to me and then want to come say I'm starting a fight with you --this (your actions and words) aren't just comical, they are borderline nuts!







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Kola, in agreement regarding what? As I said, I only read the first two posts in this thread because after that, they started getting negative. But I did like Moonsigns reply and the sincerity that came from it, as well as her reasoning for coming here.

As it refers to the ingrate poster, I'm not quite sure as I skim the threads and stop reading most time once the name-calling and other stuff starts. It's silly, and I don't like it. Sometimes I'm so shocked, I'm speechless and that in itself doesn't happen much.

But, I will say Kola that while I do try to support your books and wish you nothing but the best in your literary endeavors, some of the posts I've read by you make me sad. It's too much anger and negativity. I say let it go. Are these people's comments "really" worth your showing your behind and acting irate over? In my opinion, no. But again, we all have our styles on how we handle things. You have the choice not to respond.

I'm sure we can all get fired up, pissed off, and downright get our feelings hurt, but is this forum the place to display that to the world? Nope, I don't think so. Call your girlfriend, write in a journal, and abide by the "never let'em see you sweat" because in the end, they're only winning by causing you to be angry, unhappy, etc. It's just not worth it, IMO.

Let it go Kola.

It's my birthday, so I think I'ma get outta here and celebrate.

-Tee

(And email me directly if you want more of my thoughts.)
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Happy Birthday Tee!!!!!!!! Have fun --Libras, in general, are great people :-)

BTW, I agree with everything you just wrote!
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No Moon---

YOU...go back and read the I AM KOLA thread.

You will see that I was mimicking the wording of both Cynique and this Jo Jo person.

But instead of paying attention--you had to jump to conclusions...the one that would HELP your opinion of me (one shared by my longtime enemies Cynique and JMHO). You made an ACCUSATION...that is untrue and stupid.

I'm much too serious a person (about race) to play games such as pretend to be YOU.

If anybody's SHYT it's YOU. And your accusation is beyond PREMATURE for someone so High and Mighty and HOLY and Righteous as you claim to be.

Whoever Jo Jo is...it's not me.

But I'm certain that TIME will bear that out..

......and that you won't be woman enough to apologize.





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just to let you know up front, moonsigns--fore this getz outta pocket.

im not kola.

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to you kola---

that lady told you right.

n you brought all this on yourself cuzz you're a hypocrite.

you call cynique by her color, accuse moonsigns of being a racist n call her out her name, down IR relationships 'cuzz QUEENIE KOLA dont like it

n you nasty in general like the lady said

so stew n your juices chick

im glad theyr turning on your azz


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Posted on Saturday, October 02, 2004 - 04:27 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Tee--you're absolutely right.

And although I tried to have friendships and pass the time here, I'm leaving the board now for good.

It's impossible for me to be accepted here. All we do around here is fight and bicker.

Happy birthday and good luck..with your career, as well.

Kola






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You're right that I would never apologize to you regarding this matter. Also, my womanhood is not (and could never be) measured by whether or not I aplogize to you, a woman who never ceases to disrespect my heart, my being, my family and my convictions --ignorantly at that.

I will never succumb to self-deprecation in order to feed your power trip.



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Well, MOON...I do apologize to you....for disrespecting your being, your heart, your family and your convictions.

I've been extraordinarily bitchy to you...mainly because with the work I do, I just found/find you so incredibly naive and annoying. And completely dishonest about your motives and your intentions.

But still, I was wrong to attack you so bitterly and with such racial vigor, coming from my own frustrations.

I certainly owe you an apology.

And now that I'm leaving the board, I feel it's only right to say that....for the sake of others knowing that I didn't think myself ENTIRELY right.

But life and time will show you a lot more truths underneath the ideals that you hold as truth, MOON...and perhaps by the end of it, you'll have a truly (invasive) understanding of my viewpoint as well.

I don't wish to know you. But in my heart, I don't have any genuine malice for you, either.

And by the way...I have enormous emotional and familial hardships to deal with right....and that is why I'm leaving. Not because of your presence or because of the constant unpleasantness of late.

It's just that I'm weak right now and I don't have the clarity, patience or DESIRE......to bicker and fight.

I need peace and quiet. And luckily there's a creek under the trees on the property...where I can just accept the fact that I'm stuck in the California desert with no people but a 5 yr. old and 7 yr. old.

And maybe knowing that will help you to accept my apology MOON and to understand why I'm so stir crazy.

But still.....I feel the things, very deeply, that I stated.

I feel that way.





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awwww aint that touching?

waht is this kola chick, a soap actress?

i hope moonsigns isn't buying any of that shit.

big bad kola couldn't hack a coupla white chicks.

she had to high tail her scary ass outta here!!!

scare-d cat scare-d cat!!

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kola got her butt kicked
kola got her butt kicked
kola got her butt kicked

now me n moonsigns can show ABM what its like to be with real women.

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ding dong the witch is dead!!!

yaaaaaaay
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Jojo----you are almost as much of a nut as Wysteria was most of the time on this site.
Why do you continue to assert to everyone how white you are?..And why, for God's sake don't you start your sentences with a capital letter? I can understand the small letters once in a while, but you are doing it ALL OF THE TIME. Its driving me batty....Also, it's supposed to be, "Moonsigns and I can show Abm what it's like to be with real women." Not "me n moonsigns". Do you think Blacks won't notice when you write like that, or is this some kind of subtle insult? Or don't you know any better? Just what are you up to?
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Posted on Sunday, October 03, 2004 - 01:09 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Um, Lambd, you might wanna to check out the facts about Jojorules and Miss Wisteria as detailed in Troy's post, under the "I am Kola" thread.
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Posted on Sunday, October 03, 2004 - 01:26 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

This is strange. I got an email from Kola saying that all of this crap is some kind of trick. That
someone with some computer knowledge is 'fixxing' things to look like Jojo's posts are coming from her computer...BTW, Cynique---I saw that thing where Wysteria was calling herself all of these names and then 'lol' was at the end. What was that about?
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Posted on Sunday, October 03, 2004 - 01:59 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Who knows, Lambd? Nothing Kola does surprises me. Her great intelligence is exceeded only by her absolute insanity.
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Posted on Sunday, October 03, 2004 - 02:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Maybe her story would be a bit more logical if it wasn't so freak in nature (how many times is a computer really "fixed" on a message board --never heard of such). I think the track record of all these various screen names doesn't help the situation either.

Strange is right! And to think she and A_womon were insinuating I created this mess --shameful! Nevertheless, the truth seems to be out and certain character traits are seen for what they are worth.

Again, Cynique, you were right all along!

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Oh moonsigns, still spreading that think layer of stank energy around peacefully, aren't you? MY oh my, how easily you slip in and out of ya peacemaker mode.

Yeah Moonsigns, I DID Think it was you! ANDDDDD?? YOU thought it was someone else too, at first didn't you??? Let me refresh your self righteous (so what else is new?)memory and I quote

"A point for you to consider, if you procreate with any of these black men who "love" you so, your children usually are considered black."

Did you think that you were speaking to KOLA? Hmmmmmmm, sounds like to me ya thought you were speaking to another white broad like yourself. So that makes your ass just ass "shameful" and your character traits more apparent every time you post too, doesn't it?

And I never insinuate a damn thing, I unlike you, say what I mean and mean EXACTLY what I say! Now have fun not reading that! HAH!

And by the way, I won't waste anymore of my time right now displaying examples, but you are quite a liar too. Maybe when I feel like it, I will post your lies for the world to see, if they haven't seen through your transparent ass already!
taataa for now. Hahaha!
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LAMBD, that email was totally on cue.

That's why TROY JOHNSON has brought me back.

SOMEONE...God knows WHO...really was tinkering with my PC and faked this person called "Jo Jo" using my IP and then made it look like I was attacking myself.

TROY wrote me an email.....admitting....that he couldn't PROVE or BE SURE that the IP address was actually mines.

And you might recall that just 2 weeks ago---Thumper claimed to have "access" to my PC and was going to get the "goods" on me.

Not only did I not create JO JO....but at about the same time....I was having a heart to heart with ABM about my feelings regarding MOON and the fact that I really did want us to be friends and that my apology to her was sincere and that I didn't think it was fair how viciously I had attacked her.

RIGHT THAT SAME MORNING....JO JO appears.

It wasn't me. And I'm glad that TROY has even greater PC power than the villain of villains....THUMPER.

You know how much they hate me, LAMBD.

You're one of the ones who REALLY KNOWS...just how much.


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A_Womon you might not be wrong.

It could still be MOON that created JO JO.

In fact, myself and others are starting to wonder if MOON isn't really a "Bitter Black Male" masquerading and causing all kinds of mischief on this board.

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I've been so lied on and abused...I don't know WHAT to think at this point

(move in for a closeup)

But I'll tell you one thing.

I'm so glad to be back to tell my side of the story.

TROY isn't as dumb as my hackers thought, and he wasn't going to let me treated this way.

(single silver tear glitters on Kola's lower lid of right eye)

CUE ORGAN MUSIC



****TOMORROW IS NOT PROMISED

will continue after these messages....


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PS Moonsigns quit TRYING to do battle with me, it's one you will never win, even though you are definitely much OLDER than me, you will never get to my flow, speed, style, rythm,MY FLAVA or anything else. Although, I KNOW you WISH you could. HAHAHA!!!!
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Well, Moonsigns, looks like it's back to square one. Ain't life a big joke?
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That's why TROY JOHNSON has brought me back.

SOMEONE...God knows WHO...really was tinkering with my PC and faked this person called "Jo Jo" using my IP and then made it look like I was attacking myself.

TROY wrote me an email.....admitting....that he couldn't PROVE or BE SURE that the IP address was actually mines.

And you might recall that just 2 weeks ago---Thumper claimed to have "access" to my PC and was going to get the "goods" on me.

Not only did I not create JO JO....but at about the same time....I was having a heart to heart with ABM about my feelings regarding MOON and the fact that I really did want us to be friends and that my apology to her was sincere and that I didn't think it was fair how viciously I had attacked her.

RIGHT THAT SAME MORNING....JO JO appears.

It wasn't me. And I'm glad that TROY has even greater PC power than the villain of villains....THUMPER.

You know how much they hate me, LAMBD.

You're one of the ones who REALLY KNOWS...just how much.
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Just for the record, you're flattering yourself if you think I hate you, Kola. And I have never said to you or to anyone else that I hate you. You're not that important to me. You are someone with whom I disagree with about most things, but I don't feel the need to hate you for that. I like arguing with people, like making them defend their principles. Hate requires exertion and I'm too lazy to maintain that much negativity.
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I don't hate you either Mom.

And I'm grateful that you said something kind--when I thought I was about to get your Joan Crawford axe (remember that film you did--BEZERK in 1967?) right between the shoulder blades.

I love you, Cynique. Despite our different paths and disagreements.

And even though I don't agree with you...I DO UNDERSTAND where you're coming from and I respect you.

I certainly don't SERIOUSLY think of you as a house nigger. You're too complicated for that bag.





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Posted on Sunday, October 03, 2004 - 06:55 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hate is counterproductive, as it usually leads to violence --and violence is always negative!

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Well as MALCOLM X said and I most definitely agree:

"Real change can only be brought about by Revolution...and you can't have real revolution without violence."

It doesn't mean we have to LIKE IT....or hold up "hate" as something good and healthy.

But there are times in people's reality when they need to harness and USE the power of their HATE for their own gain and their own good.

And it's totally and way too OCEANIC to make the blanket statement that HATE is counterproductive.

When I was in pshychiatric treatment....it was shown to me that HATE can indeed be shaped and twisted CHANGED...like turning glucose into sugar....to bring about a positive end.

NOTHING is all good.
NOTHING is all bad.

Too much Idealism, if anything, can be counterproductive.

But then WOMEN are taught to cling to "emotionally passive" conclusions...and MEN are allowed to live more in the reality, the true passion of life's circumstantial extremes.

And like thinking like a MAN...better than I like thinking like a woman.





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