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Robynmarie
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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 01:41 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

This is a website that allows women scorned to post all kinds of ugly and malicious things about their former boyfriends. The sista who owns the site was on Dr. Phil with a brotha who was put on blast on dontdatehimgurl.com by a woman he dated. He is mad as hell and is suing the site owner but the sista didn't back down. Dr. Phil, surprisingly, took the black man's side. BTW, I check the site ocassionally...so far haven't seen anyone I know.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 02:07 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Damn, I didn't know it was a black woman who owned the site? PRAYING it ain't the same girl who owns sorrybabiesdadies.com.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 04:03 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Wow!! I couldn't believe this site. Talk about sour grapes and lacking the ability to "get over it". I'm sorry but this is nothing short of female vengeance and character assassination via the go gurl freind cyber network. There has to be be some legal ramifications about posting someones picture and bad mouthing them. Believe me, I can understand the angst and feelings of betrayal of a relationship gone bad, but to post a mans picture with a vitriolic accusations is a little over the top don't you think? And does this pubescent behavior have any relationship to the "scorned woman" syndrome?

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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 04:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


That's right NT. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

So keep your pants on and you won't have to worry about it


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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 04:51 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

all of those women would have been alright if their was less yappin' and more sammage makin'
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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 04:55 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I'd do the same thing triple times worse. I hope the site stays up:-)
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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 05:51 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"I'd do the same thing triple times worse. I hope the site stays up".

Why.....?????
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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 05:58 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Becuz you don't cheat on people. It's wrong. And if a man cheats on me, then he defintely should pay and be humiliated.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 07:01 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

What happens if some factually WRONG or unproveable information is posted on the site that ruins someone's reputation?

Or worse, what if someone becomes so enraged by what's been posted about him that he attacks the person who's posted it?

This seems like an incredibly dumb and irresponsible to do and I suspect the creator and sponsors of this site will be made to pay dearly for what they're doing.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 - 09:24 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"This seems like an incredibly dumb and irresponsible to do and I suspect the creator and sponsors of this site will be made to pay dearly for what they're doing."

It's not only dumb and irresponsible, it's reckless and vindictive. GET OVER IT!!! As you suggested bro ABM, what if the guy is innocent and himself a victim of an embittered scorned woman who he wanted nothing to do with? Is it fair to trash the guy because a jilted woman could not have her way? Where do you draw the line on this retaliatory teenage vindictiveness??? It's ridiculous!!


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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 12:33 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I've actually put two men up on there: an ex boyfriend and a then a guy who is well known in the hip hop biz who I had a longish fling with (and caught him fucking another man - looong ass story) I think the site is great. I noticed that three or four other women reported problems with my ex after I posted him on dontdatehimgirl. If only I'd read what they had to say BEFORE I dated him, I'd have known to steer clear. A wonderful site!!
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 11:46 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I thought you had a husband in Nigeria, Lola_O. I see you are back, talking out of both sides of your mouth.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 12:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I think the site is hysterical!
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 12:57 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ntfs,

I suspect the line will be drawn when the site's creator and sponsors are sued into bankruptcy for helping to facilitate the ruination of some innocent man's life and reputation.

Or when one of the site's female patrons ends up dead.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 01:15 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

lola based on the stories you've submitted regarding ex-lovers and what not, i am beginning to think your blood is soaked with hiv and hepatitis.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 01:30 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I don't agree with a lot of the cheating/not-cheating things with boyfriends. If they're still a BOYFRIEND that's a clue that he's not a soulmate or anything.

I never cared what my BOYFRIENDS did.....then again, they got no children, bareback adventures, or sandwitches from me, either.

Women need to know that boyfriends are free, but so are they. There's no reason if he's just a boyfriend that you're sitting at home waiting for him to call when he's out with another girlfriend.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 01:55 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Abm-
If a man feels he is being libeled he has to prove what was stated was a lie. Most of the guys on the site are accused of cheating. How do you prove you are not a liar or a cheat without the whole world knowing your business?

I tend to think alot of what is posted on DDHG is probably true. Cheaters are a dime a dozen, but the women should have seen the red flags.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 03:11 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Robynmarie: "If a man feels he is being libeled he has to prove what was stated was a lie. Most of the guys on the site are accused of cheating. How do you prove you are not a liar or a cheat without the whole world knowing your business?"


Good question. There are MANY things you can say about a person that simply cannot be proven or dispoven. Or the measures a person would have to take for someone to assert their innocence can prove as destructive as that which they're accused of doing/being. I expect a sympathetic judge and clever attorney will eventually highlight the inherent unfairness you describe.

They will eventually screw some facts up somewhere or someone's gonna really get hurt. And when either or those happen, they're as good as fuhked.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 03:26 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Posters on this site need to go out and purchase that best-selling book entitled "He's Just Not Into You". Rejection is a b i t c h.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 03:40 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"I think the site is hysterical!"

Me too. I think the men deserve it. Who cares about their repuation.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 04:32 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"Or the measures a person would have to take for someone to assert their innocence can prove as destructive as that which they're accused of doing/being."

It's obvious they can't. That's the point of the site. It allows scorned and bitter women to strike back at the men who allegedly done them wrong. The high five each other and eagerly swap "he done me wrong" stories. We have no way of knowing if those stories are true or not. I had a similar situation that happened to me about ten years ago. A woman wrote a bunch of bullshit and sent it to all my female friends with the hope of turning them against me. If that wasn't enough, somehow (never figured out how), she called my job and tried to get me into trouble -I was living in Japan at the time! WTF..??!! She was very bitter and wanted blood. When I returned to the sates she apologized but think of the damage she could have done if my friends believed her. They all knew she was lying so her efforts were in vain.

I'm sure there a few men listed on this site are victims of the same vindictive childish behavior. As I stated before, these women need to grow up and get over their failed relationships. But they can't. And I'm willing to bet 75% of these whiny women would take back those same guys if it were possible.

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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 05:09 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ntfs,

Relationships come, mofos get bored and they they go. So unless the dude was or is their husbands, these chicks really need to movethefuhkon, already.

Not only would they take them back, they'd probably gleefully take an a$$ flogging from the men to facilitate such. I mean, hell. Because you can't really be over a dude if you've got to resort to doing this kind of shyt.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 05:29 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

This may be besides the point, but why, oh why do these men (or women) cheat and think there won't be any retaliation? Passive aggressive behavior, to be sure can be dangerous.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 05:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


I haven't looked at this site in depth, but are the women perhaps reporting men who have passed along a venereal disease.
HIV/AIDS maybe. Wouldn't that warrant some type of a reporting system???


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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 09:32 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I can walk anywhere I choose
Coz everybody's down with the BDP Crew

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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 10:20 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"....but why, oh why do these men (or women) cheat and think there won't be any retaliation?"

Why retaliate? What's the point? Wanting to get back at someone because they don't want you?? Duhhhhh....??? Just get over it and move on! But these women can't. They have no life so all they can do is run to a silly site to whine and attempt to get revenge against a man that does not want them. Where is the logic in this behavior?

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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 10:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

People get hurt and they want to get back at the person that hurt them. Seeking revenge may not be logical but it is human nature.

Again, I ask why do people lie and cheat in relationships anyway?
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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 11:18 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


Robyn - People lie and cheat in relationships because they think they're smart and for other various and sundry reasons.

And to everyone here who thinks that it's okay to be promiscuous just because you're single and that it's okay to be a liar. A playa. A cheat. Whatever.

WRONG!!!!!!!

Those days are over. If you are in a sexual relationship with another person, regardless of whether you are married or not, then your sexual conduct IS their concern.

Get it straight!!!

The solution to all of the above is that people need to stop getting into these casual sexual relationships, stop having one to fifteen different babymommies/babydaddies, get a goshdarn hobby or find some other productive way to occupy your extra time and stop acting like the universe revolves around your groin.

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Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 11:23 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"People get hurt and they want to get back at the person that hurt them. Seeking revenge may not be logical but it is human nature."

Right.

"Why retaliate? What's the point? Wanting to get back at someone because they don't want you?? Duhhhhh....??? Just get over it and move on! But these women can't. They have no life so all they can do is run to a silly site to whine and attempt to get revenge against a man that does not want them. Where is the logic in this behavior?"

You don't want someone to lie, and cheat on you and then go skipping along their merry little way happy with someone else while you're miserable and hurt; so you make them feel the way you did by making them suffer a bit.
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 12:54 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"The solution to all of the above is that people need to stop getting into these casual sexual relationships, stop having one to fifteen different babymommies/babydaddies, get a goshdarn hobby or find some other productive way to occupy your extra time and stop acting like the universe revolves around your groin."

Wow! I like that!


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"You don't want someone to lie, and cheat on you and then go skipping along their merry little way happy with someone else while you're miserable and hurt; so you make them feel the way you did by making them suffer a bit."

BB123, I understand that but it does not make it right. I have had a number of failed relationships with women whom I really, really liked. But when it was over, it was over and not once did I seek nor plot some kind of vengeance. I was very hurt but I licked my wounds and moved on. It takes a while but you eventually get over it. You have to show dignity and adult restraint in these matters otherwise you lower yourself to a level that is even beneath the person you are attempting to hurt. You do understand this don't you?

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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 10:36 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Robynmarie,

There are LOTS of things that are endemic to human nature that CIVILIZED foks we have NO frickin' business DOING.

But to answer your question, foks lie and cheat in relationships for the same reasons they speed, drink/drive, cheat on their taxes, jaywalk, lie to their parents, lie about their age and the MYRIAD other deceitful things we do: Because we want MORE out of our current circumstances than we have the right and/or courage to demand.
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 10:44 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ntfs,

Wonder how many of these women scorned have themselves fuhked over some other man(men). If they've dealing with men for any meaning period of time, I'll bet they ALL have. Yet now that they feel they're on the a$$end of some shyt, it's righteous payback time.
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 02:12 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

People commits acts of revenge large and small every day...be it starting wars to avenge some slight, or calling in sick to punish one's boss. It is not a question of being civilized, I don't believe. Unlike others, humans are a venegeful species. What the women are doing is probably counterproductive, but at least they are able to vent and not pick up a gun and gain revenge that way.

I agree with Mzuri that in the day when sex and "falling in love" can be deadly, it is a person's duty to report if they are aware of someone who is having sex and lying about their HIV/AIDS status. An internet message board is proably not the best forum.

Again, if these men feel wronged, they need to offer rebuttals. All is fair in love and war.
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 02:41 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Robynmarie,

I thinks it's more the job of trained, responsible doctors and public health officials to manage problems involving the spread of communicable diseases than it is that of vengeful chicks who probably could have easily prevented their becoming infected by AVOIDING boning some nikka (they hardly know a dayam thing about) WITHOUT using condoms.

Plus, who really know who gave whom HIV? The infectEE might, in fact, be the infectER.
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Didn't somebody make a picture germaine to the theme of this thread? Let's see, what was it called?? Ummmm Oh, yeah, "Fatal Attraction". Wasn't there another thread on this board also germaine to this subject? Let's see, what was its sub-title? Oh yeah "Who Needs Men". But, alas, Life is a b i t ch, and a b i t ch kisses and tells when who she's kissing kisses someone else. Men, you can't live with 'em and you can't live without 'em and condoms be damned! zzzzzzzz
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 03:53 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I confess Cynique. You're right.

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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 04:41 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"Wonder how many of these women scorned have themselves fuhked over some other man(men). If they've dealing with men for any meaning period of time, I'll bet they ALL have."

Interesting you said that. I've talked to a few female friends of mine when they were doing their usual male bashing and whining about the poor behavior of men. When I asked them, "Well, what about the guys you fucked over? What about the men who sincerely like you but you kicked their asses to the curb and never looked back...never thought about how they felt when you were rude and arrogant? Especially when the only thing they did wrong was like you." They all had this cheap cheesy grin on their faces and just shrugged their shoulders. Let's all get some T-shirts and have the slogan printed on it: IT'S OK FOR ME BUT NOT FOR THEE!

"Yet now that they feel they're on the a$$end of some shyt, it's righteous payback time."

Exactly. I don't approve of anyone, regardless of gender, being abusive, exploitive or mean spirited to anyone. But it seems many of these self absorbed women have no problems when they are abusive and dogging men. It's ok then. But as soon as a guy does not respond to them as they believe all men should, they run to other females for a therapy group session (or a web site) to moan and swap stories about the evils of men. Ya know, this is a two way street.....

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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 05:21 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ntfs,

THIS, my brotha, is how you get you some payback:


When I was in college, this chick I was kicking it with started dating some rich doctor (Nikka had a spoiled out Corvette Stingray to frickin DIE FOR.) Thing about it, mofo had loot, he was tall, good looking and, by most accounts, was a decent dude. So on some level, I wasn't really too mad about what she was doing. Hell. If I were a chick, I'd probably want to bone him too.

But what really pissed me the fuhk off about her was when I caught hold to what was up and asked her about him, this beeyatch REFUSED to tell me the truth about what was up. Told me I was imagining shyt. That I shouldn't take other mofos word over hers (You mean like the chick who lived next door to her who could hear you fuhking dude 2 nites before.).

See. This was her game. She wanted to keep me in the legit boyfriend, possible future husband slot while she let the dude with the bankroll run up in her. And she'd be dayam if I'm not stupid enuff to let her get away with it.

WTF?

We eventually had a big blow up and neighbors called the cops. Lucky the cops were Black or I would have caught old style poo-poo beatdown. I finally wise up, say fuhk it and left her alone.

'Bout a year or so later, I finish school. Got the good gig, lots of travel, expense account, (young Black man was stylin') and guess who, out of the Blue, appears back into my life.

So I'm cool about it. She's calling. Stopping by. We kicking it.

Only THIS time she ain't the woman I think I might love. She's the chick I'm due some payback from. And payback is what I’m gon’ do.

New wardrobe for me. She got it.

We go out. She paying.

I wanna bone. She’s spreading ‘em. And, playah, I’m talking EVERY orifice.

But, eventually I start to feel bored. And at least a tad guilty. So I break it off. (Well. AFTER one final, positively EPIC bone job, of course.)

Then I’m out. Or, specifically, It ain’t gone work out, babe.

She calls and visits. I’m busy.

Pleads. Nah nah.

Cries to moms (Dayam it was a mistake to introduce her to ma.). Mom: It’s his life, baby. Let him be.

Finally, inexorably, she backs off.


And for the Coup de Grâce:
Years and years later my wife (whom I met and married long AFTER I’d dumped her) and I ran into my ex while we were out and about. And we had one of our daughters, then still a baby, with us.

You could almost literally SEE the haterade steam from atop her head.
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Cynique
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 06:05 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Oooh, boy, the male ego always skews the picture and it knows no bounds. Question for ABM: Why wouldn't this ditz want the rich dude and all his assets as her "legitmate" boyfriend instead of you? Wouldn't it make sense that she was letting him "run up in her" because she hoped she could win him over???? Face it. You were who she would've settled for in case she couldn't get him, which she couldn't - because she was a ditz. That's why this gold digger was still single when she latched on to you again once you became a good catch. Plain as day. LMAO.
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Mzuri
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 06:42 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


Most men aren't able to grasp the concept that they are the sensitive ones and that women don't generally give a LOL!!! From what I've observed and experienced, woman are way, much, bigger, greater dawgs than men could ever hope to be. Women are far better at plotting, scheming, conniving, lying, tricking - all of it. Men are stupider cuz they think they're smart. Men are so dumb that a woman could do some bold foul to them right in their face and they'll convince themselves that the didn't really happen because a woman would never really do that to them - a woman wouldn't dare. Men are DUMB!!!

They'd be totally useless if they didn't have LOLOLOL!!!


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Cynique
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 07:36 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

As has been said: "the female is the deadlier of the species."
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Mzuri
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 07:42 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


Helllooooooow!!! A woman will over you and you won't even know it.

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Lola_ogunnaike
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 09:30 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Its soon 2008
Time to set it straight, knowwhatimsaying
And aint no half stepping
Word
Im ready>

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Cynique
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Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 11:26 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I just read that the hands on the Doomsday clock have been moved up a couple of seconds. Take cover everybody! Lola-O has returned and she's ready.
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Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 12:57 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"THIS, my brotha, is how you get you some payback:

When I was in college, this chick I was kicking it with started dating some rich doctor (Nikka had a spoiled out Corvette Stingray to frickin DIE FOR.) Thing about it, mofo had loot, he was tall, good looking..........."


Bro ABM....gimme some time to respond....I'm still....rolling on...the floor....laughin'...Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!......!
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Yukio
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Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 02:08 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

abm: i have a similar story...it happens all the time!
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Kola_boof
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Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 08:25 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


Yeah,

It happens all the time that CHALL NIGGUZ

ain't shit!

That's what happens.




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Abm
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Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 08:27 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ntfs & Yukio,

LOT'S of brothas have similar stories. ESPECIALLY those of us who managed to make a little something of ourselves after the fact. The successes of A LOT of accomplished people are partly the product them attempting to payback lovers who betrayed them (Will Smith spoke quite eloquently of such during the recent Moving Image Salute to him.)

The thing that amazed me about her is how it never appeared to occur to her that I was going to mete out some payback on dat a$$. Funny how when somebody really wants something or someone they can be come SO self-deluded.
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Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 09:26 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


I WAS JUST KIDDING GUYS :-)

You know you guys are THE SHIT!


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Renata
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Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 07:51 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I'm not a payback person.....After breakups, I've just been known to kinda disappear instead of telling the other person I'm no longer interested. Of course, I think that's what most people do when they're younger..
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Yukio
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Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 08:05 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

abm: right...

Kola: what eva nikka...LOL!

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