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     Ferociouskitty Veteran Poster Username: Ferociouskitty Post Number: 741 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
http://tinyurl.com/dhbbqp I'm guessing from the Cheney connection that they are black. I believe that prison-style vigilante justice is the only kind of justice that will be served on this woman's behalf. | ||
| Chrishayden "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Chrishayden Post Number: 7912 Registered: 03-2004 Rating: N/A |
If she sits around waiting for it herself she will never get it. A personal story: My Grandmother's sister Willie was about 4'8" and weighed about 100 lbs. She was married to a man 6' 3" and wieghed 300. She wouldn't hestiate to go upside his head any time, any place. She couldn't hurt him, he would laugh it off. He never initiated no violence. She should have stabbed his ass the first time he got out of line--but let me tell you this you women always want to ignore. There are women, and men who LOVE this abuse. They want it. They invite it. They will abuse and attack anybody who tries to interfere with it. For this to go on this long--she has been a willing participant. Ever heard the word MASOCHIST? You all need to get off this rescue-de-poor-woman bit. People love to play their little games. | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 13709 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
I totally disagree with your assessment of this particular situation, Chrishayden. To try and blame the victim is right in line with the mindset of those misguided males who always claim that a rape victim is the one at fault. This man is guilty of harrassment via mental cruelty, - pure and simple. To defend his actions by saying the woman deliberately provokes them because she secretly enjoys them does not apply in this case. This woman has no control over the situation. She is at the mercy of the laws and the court. To accuse her of participating in a twisted relationship with her ex-husband is ridiculous! If she was a masochist, she would've stayed married to the fool. | ||
| Chrishayden "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Chrishayden Post Number: 7917 Registered: 03-2004 Rating: N/A |
To try and blame the victim is right in line with the mindset of those misguided males who always claim that a rape victim is the one at fault. (That ain't got a damn thing to do with it and you know it. There are people with a martyr complex who LOVE being a victim because it gets them attention. Look it up. At one time, a woman who was being victimized by this sort of bastard was at his mercy. Nowadays they got whole agencies that will get the woman in the clear for free. I used to work for one. One half the women was back with those no good abusers within 48 hours after we had moved them out. If she had wanted it stopped, she could have stopped it long ago. | ||
| Chrishayden "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Chrishayden Post Number: 7918 Registered: 03-2004 Rating: N/A |
Martyr complex From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Jump to: navigation, search In psychology, a person who has a martyr complex, sometimes associated with the term victim complex, desires the feeling of being a martyr for its own sake, seeking out suffering or persecution because it feeds a psychological need. In some cases, this results from the belief that the martyr has been singled out for persecution due to exceptional ability or integrity.[1] Theologian Paul Johnson considers such beliefs a topic of concern for the mental health of clergy.[2] Other martyr complexes involve willful suffering in the name of love or duty. This has been observed in women, especially in poor families, in codependant or abusive relationships.[3][4] It has also been described as a facet of Jewish-American folklore.[5] The desire for martyrdom is sometimes considered a form of masochism.[6] Allan Berger, however, described it as one of several patterns of "pain/suffering seeking behavior", including asceticism and penance.[7] [edit] References ^ Davis, Sheldon E. (September 1945). "What Are Modern Martyrs Worth?". Peabody Journal of Education 23 (2): 67–68. ^ Johnson, Paul E. (January 1970). "The emotional health of the clergy". Journal of Religion and Health 9 (1): 50–50. doi:10.1007/BF01533165. ^ Lewis, Oscar (Oct-December 1949). "Husbands and Wives in a Mexican Village: A Study of Role Conflict". American Anthropologist 51 (4): 602–610. doi:10.1525/aa.1949.51.4.02a00050. ^ Kutner, Nancy G. (March 1975). "The Poor Vs. the Non-poor: an Ethnic and Metropolitan-Nonmetropolitan Comparison". The Sociological Quarterly 16 (2): 250–263. doi:10.1111/j.1533-8525.1975.tb00943.x. ^ Dundes, Alan (Oct-December 1985). "The J. A. P. and the J. A. M. in American Jokelore". The Journal of American Folklore 98 (390): 456–475. doi:10.2307/540367. ^ Seligman, David B. (May 1970). "Masochism". Australasian Journal of Philosophy 48 (1): 67–75. doi:10.1080/00048407012341471. ^ Berger, Allen S. (September 2003). "Choosing to Suffer: Reflections on an Enigma". Journal of Religion and Health 42 (3): 251–255. doi:10.1023/A:1024843702805. | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 13714 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: |
How do your postings apply to the woman in question? Did you READ the article? Everything she has done to put a stop to the harassment of an incarcerated demented obsessive vengeful husband has been to no avail. This is not a martyr complex case. I guess you think every time a woman seeks to prevent a man from making her life miserable, she is doing this because she's wants attention and sympathy instead of results. The typical myopic viewpoint of a neurotic male. |
