“Who You Callin’ a Ho’?”

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Author Message   Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 2279 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) Posted on Friday, April 08, 2005 - 08:20 am:        "How come no one ever admits that part of the reason women love hip-hip -- as sexist as it is -- is 'cuz all that in-yo'-face testosterone makes our nipples hard?" ---Joan Morgan; author of 'When Chickenheads Come Home to Roost', freelance columnist and noted hip-hop feminist Kola, Isn’t this largely the reason why you (and apparently MANY other women like, including his ex’ actress Vivica A. Fox) desire to - to use your own words - “grudge f*#$” thug rapper Fitty Cents? Is this the reason why MANY otherwise well raised/bred young Black (and non-Black) boys/men are feigning ‘gangstahood’? And could it be that women, perhaps more than any other reason, are the cause for why the widely despised, misogynistic ‘thug-gangsta’ subgenre of hip-hop remains so much more popular than h-h’s more benign, if not benevolent, derivations?   Kola_boof Veteran Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 75 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) Posted on Friday, April 08, 2005 - 12:18 pm:        No, I disagree with you ABM. The impulse that I detect in 50 CENTS that attracts me to him....is the same one I get from a Marine in Uniform or from an alligator catcher in Ethiopia. It's just pure undistilled testosterone. But you needn't wrap testosterone in HIP HOP/RAP culture....to make it testosterone. In other words...we can do without the bullshit and the woman-hating, not to mention the blatant Self-hating that is being taught to our children. Little boys grow up and do what they saw their fathers do. We need more testosterone in the form of Denzel, more Will Smith, more Malcolm X.....THAT KIND of testosterone. While I might beast-fuck 50 Cents or any other Skank Rapper in the dark demon of a midnight pussy fry......I would marry and love and even be subordinate to a macho man like Malcolm X, Denzel or any number of Blue Black wiseman from my homeland. The SEX angle that Joan Morgan speaks of is cheap and short lived. What she doesn't mention is that a GREAT MAJORITY of women in this country are plain "dumb-asses" who haven't been fully developed as women....many of who are 35 and 40 and STILL don't have concrete opinions, any Vision for their children or any principles. These are the girls RAISED by the t.v. while their single mothers were at work. Girls who wear blonde hair, daisy dukes and believe quietly in the powers of "good hair". Girls who believe it's OK for men to say/do anything they want to...because the HOOD backs and supports them, in the name of "Black Men".....Girls who don't have the courage to speak up for what they really think and feel and rarely tell the TRUTH about what they've seen. Instead...they say what is POPULAR to say. White and other women are guilty of the same Door-mat qualities. Supporting and making excuses for the sorry ass White boys and other men who fill up their lives with sexist machismo....because MOTHERS LOVE their sons, but RAISE their daughters. THAT...is the problem. ________________ Men like 50 CENT are only good for one thing....and Vivica Fox proved that by getting her some dick for her 40th Birthday and moving on. A man like 50 CENT will never really KNOW a woman. You only need listen to his idiotic mind to know what level he's on, and because of his SUCCESS and RICHES, it's a level that he won't be rising above until about age 70...and even then, he may be loathe to admitt that he reached it or what a poisonous dumb ass he was in his glory days. As I said in NILE RIVER WOMAN: "the only thing better than some GOOD dick...is soon, New Dick." I'm sure because of the lack of quality men, Vivica and Joan know all about that.   Mahoganyanais "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mahoganyanais Post Number: 137 Registered: 01-2005 Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) Posted on Friday, April 08, 2005 - 01:30 pm:        ABM, you quoted one of my all-time favorite essays. But you didn't even quote the best part(s), imo. ;-)