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Renata
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Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 12:12 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

What's up with these dumb bitches allowing their boyfriends to beat their children to death?

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The same thing has happened here in the last month. The last I'd heard, they were still investigating. Cases here don't seem to get the same publicity as New York cases.

In the Georgia case, the child was under a year old. When questioned by reporters, the mother and BOYFRIEND (not even the child's father, and had no right to touch the child at all), cursed him out and drove off. That was a few days before their arrest.
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Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 12:27 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

One thing I hate more than a abusive controllig man is a weak woman who accepts the abuse and contol. Those bitches could find a knife in the kitchen or an iron rod in the shack? Weak Women like that deserve the terror they invite into their lives.

Better yet, they deserve to get lethal injection right alongside their "soulmate". These type of women should be breeded out.
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Renata
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Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 12:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Damn straight.
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Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 12:47 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

This just sickens me so much.

It comes from Africa.

African women (90%) will let men do ANYTHING to their children--because the "man" is GOD.

That's where you get this from. The mother looking the other way.










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Renata
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Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 12:59 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I'm just really happy that my mother isn't anything like that. If I let my husband beat/kill my child, my family would kick MY ass first.
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Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 02:19 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

--I'm just really happy that my mother isn't anything like that.---

Mine too. :-)
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Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 04:05 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"Battered Wife Syndrome" is such BS. :P
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Posted on Wednesday, February 01, 2006 - 04:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

This just sickens me so much.

It comes from Africa.

African women (90%) will let men do ANYTHING to their children--because the "man" is GOD.

That's where you get this from. The mother looking the other way.

As opposed to 90% of African Americans women letting white men do anything they want to them and there children because white men are gods.
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Posted on Thursday, February 02, 2006 - 03:18 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

When I was a four, my father brutally beat my mother...with a broomhandle, no less.

A neighbor called my mother's sister.

Who told my uncle.

When my uncle discovered what had occurred, he came to our apartment, kicked in the door and beat my father to within a centimeter of the end of his life.

My uncle then gathered my mom, sister and I up, got all of our clothing, whatever money my father had on him and move us in to his apartment.

We never lived with my father again.

And my father NEVER even remotely came CLOSE to putting his hands on my mother.

I'm glad my uncle didn't kill my father.

But I'm ALSO glad he ALMOST killed him.
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Posted on Thursday, February 02, 2006 - 09:12 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Until recent times, My family history was basically a series of women nearly killing their abusive husbands to protect their children. Women like my ancestors are becoming more uncommon now. What's happening to our black women? :-(

I think it's today's law. you can't protect yourself and your children without being charged with assualt, and they more often give WHITE women the benefit of the self-defense plea. BLACK women are always held accountable for our actions. I really HATE this country sometimes.
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Posted on Thursday, February 02, 2006 - 11:33 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Roxie,

Legend has it my maternal grandmother killed her husband for reasons similar to those you express. I say its a "legend" because the only ones who really know about what went down are either dead. Or they ain't talking.

Obviously, there are MYRIAD biases against Black women (and men) in the legal/judicial system.

But I think where some sister make a mistake is not getting a nikka's prior misdeeds on the PUBLIC RECORD. Then when they have to kill a mofo, they don't have shyt backing them up. And (moreso than White women) usually can't afford an attorney who can help them beat the rap.
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Posted on Thursday, February 02, 2006 - 01:33 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Women like that are sick, have no love for themselves and aren't capable of loving others, not even their own children.

Ain't no way in hell, a mother flucker who calls himself my man gonna be manhandling my child...not even a push or shove, let alone punching him and slamming him against some damn wall.

And I ain't the fighting type, but let a man hit my chile. We'll fight like jungle animals.

Family (or lack thereof) is a major factor in abusive relationships. I'm the youngest and my sisters would have whipped my ass if I allowed a man to hit me, and they would dayum sure whip his.
Plus, I had a father and brothers growing up, who would crack a nucca's skull if they found out he put his hands on me.
Nine times out of ten, an abused woman doesn't have men (father, brothers) in her life or close family ties.

Plus if I lost my mind and hooked up with a fool like that, my family would catch his "deranged" vibe in a heartbeat and get my ass away from him.

In any case though, single women have NO business bringing these men around their children anyway.
When my son was growing up, I told men I dated that my son and I were TWO-man team.
I ain't want or need anybody living with me and my child.
My man lives with me now. He has been since my son was seventeen. And I knew him for three years before I took a chance on that.

Check this out: I have a sixteen year-old cousin whose mother moved her boyfriend in. The mother would leave for work before the sixteen year-old left for school. And this idiot would get up out of bed after the mother left for work slithering around while the sixteen year-old is getting ready for school, and he'd make slick comments about her clothes and her body.
She told her uncles about that shit and they went straight over there and physically removed that bastard from the house. They wasn't trying to hear nothing. Didn't give him time to pack shit.

On the other hand: My sister took in her daughter's best friend when the best friend was fourteen years old. Because the best friend's mother's boyfriend was hitting on her and when the best friend told her mother, her mother kicked HER ass...came to my sister's house with her face all red and swollen. My sister never sent her back home.



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Posted on Thursday, February 02, 2006 - 01:42 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

RE: "I think it's today's law. you can't protect yourself and your children without being charged with assualt, and they more often give WHITE women the benefit of the self-defense plea. BLACK women are always held accountable for our actions. I really HATE this country sometimes."
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It's EXTREMELY important that abused women document and tell others of their abuse.

I know two women who killed their husbands and were not convicted.
One stabbed her husband after he hit her one time too many.
The other shot her husband after he cold knocked out her seven year old son, who was trying to help her fight him.

They were both clients at a drug rehab where I worked and, fortunately, had spoken at length about their abusive relationships with counselors and in groups.

But what if nobody had known?

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Posted on Thursday, February 02, 2006 - 03:59 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Like Sophia said in the Color Purple, "You better bash Mr.'s head in, and think about heaven later."
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Posted on Friday, February 03, 2006 - 12:19 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Deebaby says: "Nine times out of ten, an abused woman doesn't have men (father, brothers) in her life or close family ties."


This is a point that every woman - ESPECIALLY one has married or will marry and/or have children - would do well to consider. Ladies. Do NOT stray too far from your adult male kin and friends. Their mere presense might be the difference between your living and dying.
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Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 12:19 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Roxie wrote: One thing I hate more than a abusive controllig man is a weak woman who accepts the abuse and contol. Those bitches could find a knife in the kitchen or an iron rod in the shack? Weak Women like that deserve the terror they invite into their lives.

Better yet, they deserve to get lethal injection right alongside their "soulmate". These type of women should be breeded out.

### I agree 100%.
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Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 05:32 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I don't think any woman DESERVES to be beaten or have her children beaten or murdered.
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Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 12:47 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

After my grandfather died (when I was a baby), My mother and I had no other men in our lives to protect us yet she was able to protect herself and me from my father.

Mother was always the one financialy supporing her loser brother and bailing him out of trouble ,never the other way
around. And not too long ago I fell into the same trap with my equally pathetic cousin.

Have any of YOUR fathers asked to borrowed YOUR money to feed his other two children at MCDonalds? Mine did.

We have been around so many destructive male relatives. We had to learn to protect ourselves and do by ourselves without a guy, even fix our own plumbing.


What's these bitches problem? Why can't they take care of themelves? too trustful? too gullible? Were they a bunch of "daddy's girls"?

I know this is obvious, but I JUST have no sympathy for them.
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