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"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Post Number: 223
|Posted on Wednesday, July 28, 2004 - 09:26 pm: |
While you all made some validate points, there's a few missing. I don't want to lay all of the weight on black women because their not loving themselves. I'm not going to put it all on the "image of beauty" that is constantly shoved down our throats. Sure some of it can be because of these two things, but a lot of it is that many of us black men have issues and are not secure with our own blackness. I thinkmany of us are still trying to get a firm grip on that smoke ring of "I'm just as good as a white man" or still believe that the white man's ice is colder. I know this question has been asked, but you know I can not remember hearing an answer for it, Why is it that when a black man becomes "successful" the value of a black woman goes down while the value of a white woman goes up? And also let's face fact, many of the brothers who are with white women have the mistaken impression that the rest of us should bow down and kiss her a__ just because she choose to be with him. As if! And then, some of these white woman can get very snooty and uppidity around the sistas. I done seen it. So, we're dealing with a lot of issues here that are painful to look at, much less deal with it.
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