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Deebaby
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Username: Deebaby

Post Number: 51
Registered: 08-2005

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Posted on Thursday, February 02, 2006 - 01:33 pm:   

Women like that are sick, have no love for themselves and aren't capable of loving others, not even their own children.

Ain't no way in hell, a mother flucker who calls himself my man gonna be manhandling my child...not even a push or shove, let alone punching him and slamming him against some damn wall.

And I ain't the fighting type, but let a man hit my chile. We'll fight like jungle animals.

Family (or lack thereof) is a major factor in abusive relationships. I'm the youngest and my sisters would have whipped my ass if I allowed a man to hit me, and they would dayum sure whip his.
Plus, I had a father and brothers growing up, who would crack a nucca's skull if they found out he put his hands on me.
Nine times out of ten, an abused woman doesn't have men (father, brothers) in her life or close family ties.

Plus if I lost my mind and hooked up with a fool like that, my family would catch his "deranged" vibe in a heartbeat and get my ass away from him.

In any case though, single women have NO business bringing these men around their children anyway.
When my son was growing up, I told men I dated that my son and I were TWO-man team.
I ain't want or need anybody living with me and my child.
My man lives with me now. He has been since my son was seventeen. And I knew him for three years before I took a chance on that.

Check this out: I have a sixteen year-old cousin whose mother moved her boyfriend in. The mother would leave for work before the sixteen year-old left for school. And this idiot would get up out of bed after the mother left for work slithering around while the sixteen year-old is getting ready for school, and he'd make slick comments about her clothes and her body.
She told her uncles about that shit and they went straight over there and physically removed that bastard from the house. They wasn't trying to hear nothing. Didn't give him time to pack shit.

On the other hand: My sister took in her daughter's best friend when the best friend was fourteen years old. Because the best friend's mother's boyfriend was hitting on her and when the best friend told her mother, her mother kicked HER ass...came to my sister's house with her face all red and swollen. My sister never sent her back home.



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