"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Post Number: 277
|Posted on Monday, March 13, 2006 - 03:08 pm: |
As well, Renata, you need to talk to an attorney or someone at legal aid about acquiring power of attorney over your grandmother's affairs. She may well be unhappy with the situation, but if her personal finances are being used to benefit someone other than her, then you have a serious issue and need to take control.
And let granny get upset, she'll get over it as soon as she realizes that you're trying to protect her interests. At her age, whoever is controlling her situation is someone she probably fears and she isn't willing to admit that which is why she doesn't want any kind of confrontation. But if you allow it to continue, knowing there is a serious problem, and you do nothing, then you can be held just as liable as her abuser. Good luck, and may God's blessings be with you.