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Username: Brownbeauty123
Post Number: 2231
Registered: 03-2006
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Votes: 0 | | Posted on Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 06:05 pm: | |
"When dating you could use your natural hair as a dumb negro filter. Only the dumb negros would not consider talking to you based upon the length of your hair."
Troy, I do not plan on going back to natural. My life is so much easier socially with relaxed-like hair. I am going to stick to the relaxed look. If I lived in a world that accepted me as who I am in my most natural state, then I would wear afros, and kinky twists all day long. But I don't. It's too much of a struggle, and it makes my life so much easier when it comes to dating men--both black and white. I don't know where the myth comes from that white men like black women with very natural hair, they too, are more intrigued when they see a black woman with no so stereotypically kinky textured hair. I've worn Indian Remi hair and noticed i get a bit more looks from men of other races.
Women can be just as judgemental and non accepting of other black women who go natural, especially if you have very coarse textured hair. |